Weight loss

Hi Tee,

Yes God is truly wonderful indeed. He can and will work out all things in our lives. I have learned that in order for God to be able to work things out is for us to step back and let go and let God. We have to decrease in order for God to increase. I have a dear friend who also is having problems with her relationship with her husband and though we are new lambs in Christ she has learned that she can do nothing but God can. Just always pray that God's will be done no matter what the situation is. I know when I went through my first divorce I was terrified. I felt like such a failure. And I knew that I was a good wife. I was totally faithful but he wasn't. I remember going to the church alter and I would pray for him to "fix" this thing. I didn't want a divorce. I was scared totally. And I remember my pastor asking me what I wanted to happen in this situation. And I said I wanted the situation to work out. I had moved out to give him "time" to supposedly work things out.
Only he was still doing his thing. Well I would pray and pray. Then I realized God knew what was best and I let go. I had questioned why he wouldn't answer my prayers about working the problem out with my then husband and I soon realized he had. He said NO. He knew that it was not a relationship for me to be in. He was an alcoholic and I suffered alot of his brutality. I remember asking myself, "Am I willing to live like this for the rest of my life?" and the answer was no. Of course when the soon to be ex realized that I was no longer interested in being in that marriage he wanted me back. But God gave me the good sense to follow his direction and to walk away from it. In a nutshell...God knows what is best for us. We try to work things out for ourselves and all we do is get in our own way. Just step back and pray that God's will be done and you will get the confirmation when he is finished. Walk in faith dear Tee and totally trust in God. He will always be there for you
when all of mankind will let you down. I will keep you in my prayers dear Tee and you stay strong and trust in the Lord. God Bless you and keep you. Love and Hugs to you.

Wolfie
Lap Rny and choly
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee Schmitt, MD
Medical Center East Hospital
349/336/199/150
T oMy Precious Lord I give all the Praise, Power, and Glory
In all things. Amen

Thank you so much! God Bless you!

Wolfie
Lap Rny and choly
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee Schmitt, MD
Medical Center East Hospital
349/336/199/150
T oMy Precious Lord I give all the Praise, Power, and Glory
In all things. Amen

I just wanted to let you guys know that I am going to unsubscribe, for now anyway. I am going up to Tennessee to get my duodenal switch surgery (consult Oct. 26th) and I am joining a group from there. Thank you for all of your kind comments and friendliness. If, for some reason, I have insurance problems...I will reconsider the RNY (in Alabama) and I'm sure I will rejoin this wonderful group.
Kimberly

This is my first time to post anything, Any tips on what to expect
first couple of weeks, what to do and same not to do.
What will be traveling time after surgery?
In to see Dr. Schimitt today.
Bob

Greeting Cowboys and Cowgirls From The Great State of Texas!
We've only got two more days of our wonderful vacation left. We
have had such a wonderful time!
Just wanted to let everyone know that Fashion Show tickets are on
sale and you can get them by mailing your check for $5.00 per ticket
(Checks must be made out to EASTERN HEALTH FOUNDATION!!!) to:
Rona Scott
Medical Center East
50 Medical Park East Drive
Birmingham, Alabama 35235
When we receive your payment your tickets will be mailed to you.
You can also purchase them at any support group meeting or at the
door but I'd encourage you not to wait to buy them at the door
unless you have to. It's not a big deal but it will simplify things
if you get them for your family and friends ahead of time.
For the first time, this year's ticket price will be tax deductible
for you so that will be a wonderful thing! Please order your
tickets early. I only had 500 hundred printed and they were flying
out the door like crazy before I left for vacation. I can always
order more if I need to.....IT'S A BIG CHURCH!
This year's show is going to RULE! I can't wait for it to get here.
Hugs,
Rona
Your Cowgirl Bari-Godmother

Okay so we already know Amanda loves clothes/shoes/purses...
basically shopping! Anyway I receive emails from Payless Shoe Source
everytime they have a sale. I use to only be able to buy shoes there
and anywhere else that sold WIDE WIDTH because my foot was always so
wide. Anyway- point of this email is they are currently having a BUY
TWO GET ONE FREE SALE. They currently (atleast from what I saw at the
store in Center Point) have some awesome shoes that would work for
the Fashion Show.... several dressy and some cute dressy sparkle
sandles.
Just wanted to share... LOL.
Amanda

I was wondering how fast I should be loosing. I had my surgery on
9/15/04 and have lost 16lbs, but I have other people say they had
their surgery after or the same day and have lost more. I am on the
right track? This is my first post and I am not sure if I'm doing
this right.
Thanks Teresa

Hello Everyone,
noemally I don't pst here but you have probally seen me at the back
in the support group meetings. I didn't say it at hte meeting, bu tI
had one of the biggest mielstone yet for me. I am a member of a non-
profit organization, the Birmingham Jaycees. We run a very large, 35
year continuous running Haunted house that starts on Friday October
1, 2004. I am on the ocmmittee and am in charge of make-up and hair.
When the chair came to me to ask what size shirt I wore, i had to
think about it. Every other year they have had to order me special
shirts in 5X or 4X and I always felt like a freak. This year I told
them to order me a 2X. Geez, that is down 3 sizes just in T-shirts.
Yes, I know that that may not be a great milestone for others, but I
am changing. I have lost 116 lbs since March and have done so much
changing. It is still hard for me to hear the comments "You look
great!" "Keep up the good work", "what are you doing to lose so much
weight?" I STILL don't take a compliment very easily. But, tonight
one of my biggest tormentors from years past looked at me and very
sincerely asked "Where is the rest of you?" it was all I could do
not to break down into tears. I am still having good days and bad
days, but the good ones are now outweighing the bad ones and I am
getting stronger everyday.
Thank you for listening, we now return you to your regularly
scheduled postings.
P.S. - Please come to our Haunted House it's our last year and we
really need to raise a lot of money for our Christmas Shopping tour
for challenged children.
Noelle
326/210/120

Hello Everyone! This is the first time that I have posted, however
all of you have been a source of inspiration to me for a while. My
surgery is scheduled for October 15 with Dr. Schmit. I am so
excited, but just a little nervous. I was just wondering if any of
you have any little tips you learned from your own surgery. Such as-
I am assuming that two piece p.j.'s are going to be the most
comfortable for the hospital stay am I right? What about little
things that I need to take with me to make me more comfortable? What
about little details that I need to tell my family that will be with
me at the hospital? Please keep me and my family (Great husband 2
daughters ages 9 and 4) in your prayers.
Thank You-
Jodi

Hello everyone. I am new to the group and wanted some suggestions.
I am all done with consults and shrink visits and all. Just counting
down my two weeks of cpap. What is the best way to get prepared for
my life changing surgery? I understand to excerise more(which I am)
and shrinking my portions and taking the vitamins and testing the
proteins. Please let me know your experiences you had weeks before
your surgeries. I would appreciate it so much! I am getting so
excited about this experience!!!! :) Rene'

Yes girl God is good! He is so very awesome! Iam thankful to him everyday for all he has done for me and blessed me with. Praise the Lord!

Wolfie
"Keep Em Laughing"
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY /And choly
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
349/200.5/200

Well group as of this morning I am down to 200.5 pounds. I am getting so excited about eventually being under that first goal mark then I can work on the second goal. Yippppppppppppeeeeeeeeeeee! Praise the Lord for helping me and my wonderful support group. Oh yeah Rona we miss ya ya ole cowgirl you!!!!!! LOL

Wolfie
"Keep Em Laughing"
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY /And choly
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
349/200.5/200

I am in middle of Sleep Study, How long after surgery will CPAP machine be required

Well I called the insurance and they just got the filing of the claim in to the database today. Please say a prayer that it will be approved and I can get this extra weight from the skin off of my back and knees. The pain gets pretty bad. Thanks everyone and God Bless.

Wolfie
"Keep Em Laughing"
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY /And choly
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
349/201.5/200

Hey gang! I have received several emails asking me to relay the
information about Fashion Show rehearsals so I thought I would take
the time to post it on here as well.
10/16 @ 11:15am at MCE (between Seminar and Support Group Meeting)
10/25 @ 630pm at Mtn Top Church
11/01 @ 630pm at Mtn Top Church
If you guys have any additional questions, please just let me know
and I will try to answer while Rona is having a great time off
without us in Sunny Texas!
Thanks-
Amanda

I am sitting here and thinking about the time in the meeting last night when we all got up and spoke about our milestones. I know that I had mentioned how wonderful it felt to be in the mirror and looking back but I failed to mention the most wonderful milestone at all. I think the devil was on my back last night. I was ill before I left and he was trying to win over my spirit. But I would like to say that my biggest milestone was that I rededicated my life to Christ and I want to shout it to the world. Without him I would not be here. He has loved me from my creation and I love him and I thank him for all he has done for me , my family, my friends, and my extended family in the group. I would be nothing without him and I want to acknowledge him now and forever in my life. He guided the hands of my surgeon and he deserves all the praise , power, and glory that we can all bestow upon him. God Bless you all and I love ya all!

Wolfie
"Keep Em Laughing"
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY /And choly
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
349/201.5/200

I found the single serving Walmart brand crystal light RASPBERRY ICE
packets at the WALMART grocery store between Pinson and
CenterPoint... the one that is just a grocery store, I haven't
checked the walmart down in Center point near Roebuck, yet.
They are on the bottom shelf between the tea and the koolaid. LOTS of
the raspberry. They had 2 lemonades, but I bought them for the
goodiebags! Sorry! :)
Have a great evening!!!
Lori

Hi Friends,
I'm vacationing in Texas for 10 WHOLE DAYS! Oh my gosh - it is so
awesome! I'm having the best time!
I just wanted to remind everyone that they are having fashion show
sign up at the F.A.C.E.S. meeting tonight at 6:00. You need to sign
up in person - everyone must attend one support group meeting before
the end of October in order to be able to participate.
We're planning on having 55 participants and the slots are filling
up so fast! We're well over half full so if you'd like to sign up
tonight we'd love to have you. You can bring your before pictures
too if you want to - try to bring 5 of your WORST pics before WLS.
You'll be given a packet of information and a bio to fill out and a
schedule of rehearsal times. The entry fee is $10.00. IT'S GOING
TO BE SO FUN! The Discovery Channel has requested a television
quality copy of the DVD so we might even end up being famous!
Attire is formal so guys will do tuxedos and gals will do formal
dresses. We'll have the film crew there to do interviews along with
a photographer to do phtos. It's going to be a first class event.
I hope you will be able to come tonight and sign up.
If you need more information please email mandiks@... and Amanda
can help you out while I'm out of town.
Hugs,
Rona
Your Cowboy (this week) Bari-Godmother

OK tell the truth - that sounded like I think you would lie didn't it? Well, I mean really tell it to me straight...lol..that sounded better... Are you really satisfied with so little food after surgery? I've also read some about "head hunger"...explain this please, if you have experienced this. Lastly, can you please give me an idea of what kind of foods you guys eat on a daily basis, like a sample menu plan. I've read the post-surgery diet info on web sites that say eat protein, no refined sugar, etc. but you know - what do you eat, and how much? Thanks for any info you guys want to share.

Hi Clem,

You are just the best - we will miss you so much and I know each of us will have you in our heart on this special night.

Have a wonderful time celebrating your mom's birthday and remember we love you!

Selina
Hey J0 JO ,

You are going to look great. I only wish I would be there to see you Amanda, Selina, Kim and the rest our knock out gals. I will be thinking about all of you on this special night. i will be in Louisville with my mom celebrating her birthday. I feel the need that i should be there this year for her, but I will be thinking about each of you. Please take pictures. I am hoping that Rona will run a Video tape on the overhead for everone at the meeting after the show.

Good luck girls and Guys....I am proud fo each of you

Clem

Dr.Miles

305/193/185

Selina
RNY (Lap) August 28, 2003
Dr. Schmitt
314/165 [INLINE]

My prayers are with you Felicia, this surgery is a wonderful blessing and I pray that you have no problem getting the approval that you need to have it with your insurance. God Bless and hugs to ya.

Wolfie
"Keep Em Laughing"
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY /And choly
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
349/201.5/200

Well I'm going to try it again everybody. I had a consultation in
August and was told that BCBS of TN was stricter than AL and they
probably wouldn't do anything. Well my husband's coverage will end
the end of Sept. and I will be picking up my own insurance with BCBS
of AL and see if it will help me any. I've also gained some weight
since then too. In Aug. I was at 242 and my BMI was 37. I have joint
and back pain. I don't know for sure how much weight I have gained.
(Been staying away from the scale) but I'm sure I have. I have
another consultation in Oct. and I hope I have some promising results
and hopefully can get the show on the road. Congrats to all who have
had it and those who are going through it. Your stories are an
inspiration to those who are unsure or waiting in the wings.

I realize that I am new and all but I have to share this with you guys because I know you will fully understand. Last night my family and I, including some cousins and in-laws, all went to the Cullman County Fair. My husband, who is about a 34" waist had no problems riding anything with his cousins. I knew, and had told him before we left, that I wouldn't fit on anything. Well, he really wanted me to ride something with him and I love the Ferris Wheel, but he is afraid of heights. So, he says please ride the Scrambler. While in line, it looks like there won't be a problem because it appears quite roomy enough. So, I go ahead and step up to the ride and get in. The operator tries to close the bar and it barely makes itâ¦so I think. Well, my husband was on the side where it was supposed to lock and so I couldn't tell how far it had to go but the both of them said it was close, so I said just shove it in since it really wasn't too uncomfortable and I REALLY didn't want
to let my husband down. Well, the guy REALLY shoves the bar in and it locks and I have this crushing pain and rolls of fat are hanging out through the bar, over the top of the bar and of course lets not forget under the bar of death that I feel is choking me. I say very quickly, please undo it, I can't ride it. And then I proceed to get out of the ride and walk to the exit in front of the people waiting there in line who have been watching the whole thing. I am, of course, beet red and wanting to crawl under one of the booths behind me. My sister-in-law, whose stomach is larger than mine, watched the whole thing from behind me, because she intended to try to ride it also and I heard her tell her husband that if I didn't fit, she wouldn't either. She then told her husband to ride with my husband and he did so. Therefore, I am forced to stand there and watch them ride it while standing in front of all the people who just witnessed my prior embarassing moment. I tried so hard
not to let anyone see the tears in my eyes. I had to turn away and act like I was looking up at another ride. Then my sister-in-law told me about one time she had to get out of a bumper car because the seat belt wouldn't buckle. I then told her about how I've been researching the surgery and how I read my insurance policy and it covers it. She said she would do it too. This was the first person in my extended family I have told and I asked her to keep it to herself until I decided to tell them. Were any of you not wanting to tell people also? Why am I like that? Right now, only my husband and Mom know. Well, here is the rest of the story, as Paul Harvey would say⦠My husband KNEW I was not OK. After he got off, he just kept saying I'm sorry over and over. He then said he would ride with me on the Ferris Wheel. So we stood in line for about 20 minutes until we got almost to the front of the line, then I got too nervous that the bar would again not fit and I didn't want to
go through that again so I told my husband that, and we got out of line. He even offered to lie to everyone and said we could say that HE chickened out, but I said no. No one really said anything when we said we changed our minds. I guess they probably all figured it out. Anyway, I am more than determined now to have surgery so that by the time my 3 kids are teens, we can all ride anything together (even if I lose my lunch), instead of me standing there watching everyone else have fun! One good thing, I didn't eat anything bad for me, I passed on all the caramel apples, funnel cakes, nachos, etc, Thanks for letting me get this out, I know you guys will feel my pain.
Kimberly

Here I am in Texas having the most fun and knowing that this message
board and our patients and our group is all doing fine under the
watchful eye of Amanda and Jill. Still.....I miss it. I feel like
a mother hen checking to see if her chicks are doing o.k.
You all look and sound fine. I'm touched by all the sweet comments
about the fashion show.
I think our December meeting will be a "Fashion Show" meeting where
we show the DVD. Won't that be fun? We'll just have a time of fun
and fellowshipe and watch everyone shine!
Hugs and missing you (but not enough to come home yet - HA HA - just
kidding)
Rona
Your Bari-Godmother

I got my letter from BC/BS and have been approved for the surgery.
Looks like I'll be starting the holidays on a downhill run!
Mac
No man is an island, but I do make a suitable floatation device.

Hello everyone,
I have an Daymore evening gown size 18, I will bring it to the Monday Night meeting if anyone is interested, its a beautiful champagne pink with beading on the front along the bust line down the bodice of the dress. Its been worn twice, purchased at Parisian paid over 700
Rita

Hi My name is Kimberly and I signed up because this is the only group I saw in B'ham area. Also, I'm not sure how, but I am receiving 2 of every message...
Anyway, I have been researching all the different WLS procedures out there and I am particularly interested in Duodenal Switch. Are you all RNY and does anyone know where in Alabama is a surgeon that is performing the DS? No one that I have called so far does it. So I am looking around the internet. Thanks in advance for any help you may give me!

Hi girl I just wanted to make sure that the bio form and pics were received. Rona said you or someone would be handling the mail for her while she is on vacation? Thanks

Wolfie
"Keep Em Laughing"
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY /And choly
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
349/201.5/200

Well today I had to go and pick out yet another dress since the person I bought the other one from didn't get it to me and kept giving me the run around but there is a little consignment shop here in Leeds called "How Cute" that has some of the most beautiful dresses. I bought a formal evening gown and it is absolutely gorgeous! I slipped it on. First one in my whole life...and my Mother was with me and when I looked into the mirror I could not believe the woman looking back at me was really me. And I didn't even have my makeup on and I was absolutely entranced. I could not believe that I was looking back at myself and not seeing the morbidly obese woman that looked back at me a year ago. The saleslady was so upset she didn't know why I was crying and it was so many emotions flowing out that my Mother had to speak for me. You can rent the dresses or buy them but seeing how it was the very first for me I wanted to buy it for a keepsake and a memory so cherished that I will
never forget that moment when I looked into that mirror in that little dressing room and saw a woman that had been finally freed from the body that she was locked inside of. I thank God for this surgery and my wonderful doctor, Dr. Schmitt. God Bless us all! I am so excited I can hardly wait. I am still nervous about falling but if I do I will call it the FALL FOR THINNESS! I love ya all!

Wolfie
"Keep Em Laughing"
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY /And choly
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
349/201.5/200

Okay- First of all understand normally I am a pretty compliant WLS
patient. However occasionally once a month (and you ladies know the
time) I forget I am a WLS patient sometimes... LOL. Also keep in mind
I am 18 months post-op.
Anyway, last night for dinner I had the following:
4 or 5 bites of Zoe's Kitchen Chicken Salad
4 or 5 bites of Zoe's Kitchen "Slaw"
4 or 5 bites of Zoe's Kitchen Potatoe Salad
1/4 of a piece pita bread
Not too bad, huh?? Well about an hour later I was straightening up
some in the house and saw the Four Cheese Doritos I bought on a whim
a couple of days ago. So, I ate about 15 chips. Then I saw the
Planters Honey Roasted Peanuts- and ate about a handful of those.
Then I saw the Archway Iced Oatmeal Cookies and ate 2 cookies (these
are small cookies). Now mind you I wasn't hungry- just in a snacking
kind of mood apparently and all of the above snacking occured
probably over the course of an hour. I was finished with what I
needed to do in the house and went to stretch out to watch ER and man
oh man did I start to feel HORRIBLE!!! FULL BLOWN DUMPING on top of
what I figure has to be the feeling of over eating because I have
never felt that feeling before. I of course had the sweats/cold
chills/nausea/etc. AND threw up everything I ate.
Did I learn my lesson? OH MY GOSH YES!!! I was also reminded that 1-
I do get dumping syndrome and 2- we can over eat. Anyway, I just
wanted to step up to the plate and be honest and admit my bad move
yesterday. They say confession is good for the soul- and I do feel
better.
Thanks guys for the support!!
Amanda

Rona

About what time will we need to be at the church on Nov. 6 for the fashion show.

I need to make an appointment with my hair dresser and if I don't make it early, I

won't be able to get one on a Sat. She books up early for Sat. appointments.

Thanks

Linda

I've been working on my fashion show bio-form for the past few days.
I've skipped over questions filling out the easiest one first. Who
ever knew filling one of these things out could be so emotional.
Remembering how it used to be when I looked in the mirror... dang...
I skipped over that question for the longest but finally filled it
out tonight as tears rolled down my eyes. Now, I just hope I can
strut my stuff and not cry as I hear whoever read all this out. I'll
just try to focus on the spot light and if I cry, I'll blame the
light being in my eyes for the tears... lol.
Lori

Since it seems like I usually get sick around Christmas with the flu,
I thought I would get a flu shot this year. Does anyone know if
getting a flu shot would in any way be a problem with just having the
surgery.
Thank,
Christine
273/238/150
Dr. Schmitt

Hi girl. I know that you are frantic but just stay calm, lol. I know it is easier said than done. Just remember to push the protein like you never have. I always stay with the entrees that are pre measured so I can't over eat and steer away from alot of carbs. White carbs are BAD. But you have to have some carbs so don't completely eliminate them please. Drink lots of water. And I have at times eaten a small reese cup just to shake the ole bod up a bit and get it moving again. Try to walk as much as you can and stay active. Try to never eat past six p.m. unless maybe its a snack such as an apple or shake. I hope this helps. If you would like for me to call I can call after nine p.m. I have church tonight and depending on what time you go to bed I would be happy to call tonight or any other night. I have to call from my cell phone for long distance and after nine central time its free and on weekends. Just let me know and I hope that something I have said may help. Plateaus
are so upsetting for me to. And remember the body will adjust so to speak to the weight loss as it sees fit. Just don't panic and stay on track. God Bless...

Wolfie
"Keep Em Laughing"
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY /And choly
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
349/201.5/200

Granny found the neatest thing... INDIVIDUAL servings of GV Peach Tea
mix that you put in a bottle of water... In a green box it says SUGAR
FREE ICED TEA with PEACH Easy to use on the go GREAT VALUE. 10 pks
for $1.76. She found them at the Walmart in Oneonta and got the last
box. SOOOOOOOOOO it is going to be another HARD FIND but they are out
there. I'm going to keep a couple in my purse so if I'm out and all I
can find it plain old water and I'm not in the mood for water... TA
DA!!!! PEACH TEA!!! You mix it with a 16.9 oz bottle of water. I was
going to scan the box but my scanner is messed up (figures!)
Good Luck finding it!
Lori

I am a "lurker" in this group and have a totally off topic
information request. I am entering the job search market again and
would welcome any suggestions where I might go or who I might
contact to find a new job. I have a B.S. degree with majors in
Finance, Marketing, and Accounting. I have looked a few places but
don't seem to be looking in the right directions. If anyone has any
helpful hints for me I would appreciate it very much.
Have a great day.

Hi, Rona - I am interested in participating in the fashion show possibly. What are the details, date, etc.? I am over 7 months out, down 105 lbs. so far. Thank you!

Ruth Bouder

Hello fellow WLS journeyers!
I an So proud to say that I have hit the -40lb mark! Every -10lbs is
a happy goal for me! I had slowed down to about -2lbs/week, but when
I upped my protein, I lost 4lbs last week, and 5lbs this week! I
want to encourage anyone out there who is feeling discouraged - it
can happen for you, just keep doing the right thing. Next stop -50!
Take care,
Regina
7/13/04 Dr Schmitt
281/241/140

We would like to remind you of this upcoming event.
Support Group Meeting
Date: Monday, September 27, 2004
Time: 6:00PM CDT (GMT-05:00)
This is the regular weeknight meeting at MCE. Doors open at
5:30, meeting starts at 6pm.

I'm going to try it again. My insurance will be changing at the end
of September and I have another appointment in October. It will go
from BCBS of TN to BCBS of AL. We'll see how it goes then. I think I
may have gained a couple of pounds or so since August appointment.
Not exactly sure. Have stayed away from a scale. Guess I better go
and buy one. I finished up my physical therapy this past week and my
back still feels the same to me and my hip still bothers me. When I
had talked to Lisa on my first visit she didn't mention my back pain.
Oh well, maybe it will go better this time around. How have things
worked out for you? My friend still has to lose a few pounds and do
her nutrition class and then she will get a surgery date. I'm rooting
for her! I'm excited for her!

Ok Guys and Gals,
We'll be having Fashion Show Sign Up at tomorrow's support group
meeting. You can pick up bio forms and mail them back or fill them
out while you're there. There's a $10.00 fee for all participants.
Can't wait to see you there. This year's show will be bigger and
better than ever. It's being held at Mountaintop Community Church in
Vestavia. They have an AWESOME nearly new sanctuary. I promise that
you'll feel like Miss America or Mr. Universe. If you're six months
post op or more WE WANT YOU!!
Hugs,
Rona

Hi All! The meeting is still on for Saturday at 3:00. I feel sure
we'll have light attendance but it will be fun for those of us who
are there. We will also have protein products available. We will do
taste testing on the Extreme Smoothies but will not be mixing up
Nectar for taste testing as we will be short of folks to work the
back.
Even though it's Saturday we will have a "just visiting" meeting like
we usually do on Mondays. I hope as many of you that can will
attend. We will also be having Fashion Show Sign Up.
On a personal note:
Well, the day after Ivan the Terrible visited us we find that we've
survived it basically intact. We only lost power for about an hour.
Our basement flooded but bascially that's no biggie because we don't
ever go down there - IT'S A SCARY PLACE WITH A DIRT FLOOR AND THERE
BUT THERE MAY BUGS DOWN THERE!! (we live in a big historic home so no
fancy basement for us) - and that caused our hot water heater pilot
light to go out so we had COOL showers this morning. One window blew
out of our sunroom. We also had a small ceiling leak and several
limbs down. All in all, we were very, very blessed. We went to my
parents house yesterday (we hustled them out of town early in the
week) and they had no damage at all. On the way to their house we saw
alot of flooding and so many big, beautiful old trees down but still -
in the grand scheme - Birmingham fared VERY well. Thanks to everyone
for their prayers and thoughts. IT WORKED!

I MADE IT THROUGH THE STORM LOST POWER FOR ABOUT 12 HRS BUT EVERYONE
IS ALLRIGHT HERE!!! I HOPE EVERYONE ELSE DID THE SAME. I HOPE
EVERYONE HAS HEARD FROM THERE LOVED ONES WHO WAS IN THE PATH OF THE
STORM AND ALL IS WELL. 23 DEATHS SO FAR COULD HAVE BEEN ALOT WORSE.I
WILL PRAY FOR ALL THE PEOPLE THAT THERE LIVES GET BACK TO THE NORM AS
SOON AS POSSIBLE!!!!JEANNIE THE BIG LOSER

Thanks girl. I printed it off. Now I just have to wait for Ivan to come and go so I can get out there and find a dress. I am really looking forward to this fashion show. Oh yeah by the way. I saw Dr. Eich on the 13th. He says I certainly qualify for the penniculectomy and his nurse set my surgery date for November 17. I had wanted to have it done before the fashion show but.....he encouraged me to go ahead and do the show and we would set up the surgery very soon afterward. He said it was really more the insurance that would take time to get approved and all. I have BCBS now so I hope that they don't give me any problem. The back among other things is more than ready to get this done and I heard through so many people he is totally awesome. So please everyone say a prayer that insurance won't give me any problem and I can get this thing done asap. I willjust have to get one of those one piece control thingamajigs, lol, to hold everything in place for the fashion show. Hugs
and skinny wishes to you all!

Wolfie
"Keep Em Laughing"
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY /And choly
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
349/204/200

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,132444,00.html
Apparently being a rich celebrity doesn't mean you can keep from
being overweight. Check out this story about "Peter" and "Cindy"
from the Brady bunch and also Erik Estrada and Charlene Tilton.
Kinda interesting. I may watch it tonight while we wait for the
hurricane. However, I normally HATE reality T.V. Who knows? Could
be fun. :)
Be Safe,
Rona
Your Bari-Godmother

While we are praying, Please remember my husband. He works for AL
Power at the Gorgas Steam Plant. He was ask today to work with the
line crew cleaning trees etc. in order for the power to be restored.
He has never done this type of work, or gone from home for any long
period of time.
I hope all of you will be safe. Take care!!!!!

For anyone who maybe or know of anyone in the path of Ivan and have
no where to go please feel free to call my husband and myself for we
have opened our home to anyone in need.
706-221-6919

Okay- I have heard several people before mention there are a couple
of plus size friendly upper end consignment shops in the Birmingham
area, however at the time I was looking for anything special so I
guess I lost the mental note of where they were.
Can anyone help me??? I know there are TONS of consignment shops
however finding one that has plus size is often a task.
Thanks!!!
Amanda

I guess this might reveal a side of me some of you don't know- but I
am a shopaholic since WLS- for bargins that is. I have also become a
clothes horse- maybe because before it was so hard to find cute,
stylish things now that I can I sometimes go overboard.
Anyway, so here are the listings of some of the following stores and
phone numbers so you can call and get directions. I am only listing
the stores I have been in before. I love these places- you can always
find great buys and normally brand name things for half price. So
these may be places you might want to consider shopping as you are
dropping clothing sizes left and right. I also listed the websites,
although you can't buy anything on most of them you can get other
locations, etc.
GOOD LUCK LADIES!!! :o)
Amanda

let's all send out a prayer for all the people in ivan's path.we all
seem to forget how blessed we are at times!!!!!this is going to be a
terrible storm and i have never experienced anything like this. we
are such a close group with so many of not even knowing what we look
like and i get such a warm feeling every time i go to the message
board just like i know each and everone of you. may god keep all of
us safe and free of harm!!!!!JEANNIE THE BIG LOSER!!!!

I am wondering when is the fashion show?

Aw thank you Vicki. I am heading out tomorrow to start my hunt. I dread it, lol. Thank you for all the info!!!

I don't think we have a ROSS store here in the Birmingham area...or do we? [INLINE]

I had my surgery on 2 weeks ago tomorrow. Last couple of days I have had a problem with drinking water or anything. It seems to hurt in my sternum.

Does anyone have any advice?

Diane

I had this idea and talked to Rona about it and she thought it was a
good idea... what about a "singles mingle"? Go bowling maybe down in
Pelham. They have a bowling alley that is smoke free. I'll have to
get the name of it.
Not sure of the date of this yet, but I will let everyone know...
Maybe Oct 23rd? The 4th saturday... that evening. That will give me 3
meetings to annouce it and see if we are going to have enough worth
going. I don't want to bowl by myself.
What do you singles on here think about it? Would you be interesting
in that? Or do you have any other ideas besides bowling? I'm making a
list of things we could do... so far I have BOWLING.. lol. Would Oct
23rd be a good night?
YALL LET ME KNOW!!!
THANKS!!!
Lori

Amanda, that is a great idea. Let me know when this fashion show
meeting will be and I will bring my dress.

Went today for my 3 month check up and have lost 57.7 lbs. I have
gone from 193.5 to 235.5. It has been along time since I have
weighed this much and fitting into my clothes to where I can breath.
My kids tell me that I don't look as fat anymore considering they are
5 1/2 and 3 1/2 that to me makes me feel so good.
Thanks,
Chandra Richards
Dr. Schmitt
293.5/235.5

Hey guys-
Just a suggestion: If any of you have any dresses you would like to
sell or let some one borrow for the fashion show, why don't we plan
on having a dress show at the first fashion show meeting OR you can
bring them to a support group meeting?
I am interested in selling my dress I wore last year (you can visit
the photos link on this egroup and look under "Amanda" or "2003
Fashion Show" to see it.) It was forest green, sleeveless, and floor
length. I bought 2 of the matching shawls and had them sewn together
as arm wrap type things. I believe the dress is either a 22 or a 20.
I will have to check when I get home. I purchased from David's Bridal
and wore it for the Fashion Show and that's it.
Just let me know.
Amanda

I have the dress that I wore last year if anyone is interested. It
is black velvet, with fur around the sleeves. The skirt is long and
has lace inserts in it. It is very pretty. It is a size 20.
Feel free to contact me at work. 297-3083 or 1-800-239-2265 ext 3083.

If any ladies will be a size 20-24 for the fashion show, I do have a
gorgeous Tiffany gown, royal blue with a hand beaded bodice. The
dress has only been worn once. If interested, please contact me
directly.
Thanks,
Duckie

Hey everyone.
I've been so neglecting my boards and meetings. I'm sorry guys. With
the Summer quarter ending last week I might be able to catch up on
some things. I went down to New Orleans last week (well, the last
week of August). I was to audition for American Idol, however, I
ended up sick and unable to perform my best. The judge made me sing
anyway, he said I had a good voice, but since I couldn't sing well
because of the soreness of my throat, he couldn't tell if I was what
they were looking for.
I walked so much down in New Orleans, and now that I've returned
home, I've only walked a little. I mean, I park farther away when I
go to stores and such, but I haven't joined a gym yet. Mother and I
are looking into Cory Eversons here in Tuscaloosa. I went to check
out Curves, we have two choices of locations here, one near a bakery,
and one near mom's school. The one by mom's school, seemed so...
empty. That and the only "mother daughter deal" they had you had to
be under 18, and I'm 20.
Anyway, I'm at a stuck with my weighloss. I'm 10 weeks post-op and
have been stuck between 284 and 277 for the past week. When I left
for New Orleans I was at 288, when I got home last Friday I weighed
at 277. Since I weighed on Monday I was back to 284. I read somewhere
that if you were stuck at a weight to eat a potato, or something like
that so Thursday I made some mashed potatoes and ate about 1 cup of
it. I weighed this morning and was down 2lbs. So now I am at 282lbs.
*sigh* I must go call Cory Eversons and check their prices now.
Later everyone,
Fran
Dr.Miles LAP RNY: 7/1/04
337/277/...

We would like to remind you of this upcoming event.
Support Group Meeting
Date: Saturday, September 18, 2004
Time: 3:00PM - 6:00PM CDT (GMT-05:00)
This is our regular monthly meeting. We will be having a guest
speaker. Please contact facesofwls@... for information on
the speaker for this month.

Okay ladies. I don't want to give a fortune for a dress for the show to wear once. So do any of you have any ideas where to find a dress. I would like to possibly find a dress at a nice consignment shop or one that someone might want to sell very reasonable. Thanks!!!

Wolfie
"Keep Em Laughing"
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY /And choly
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
336/205.5/200

Okay Rona sign me up. Now I have to make up my mind on a dress. OMG this is so wild. I have never ever been in anything like this. Just pray I don't fall, lol. Thanks...Jo Jo

Wolfie
"Keep Em Laughing"
Leeds, Alabama
Lap RNY /And choly
August 27,2003
Dr. Lee A. Schmitt, M.D.
Medical Center East
336/205.5/200

Just a note to all of you who live in or near the Tuscaloosa area.
If you are unable to attend a support group meeting for some reason
and need protein or other supplies that are normally purchased at
the support meeting, I will be happy to pick these items up for you.
To make an order, please email me to confirm I will be attending.
More often than not, I will be. Once you know I will be there,
please email Rona with what you need and payment information. Then,
email me with a list of what you need. I will get with Rona at the
meeting and fill the order. I live in Tuscaloosa on Skyland and
will be happy to make arrangements with you for you to pick up your
items.
If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me.
Thanks,
Duckie

Does anyone know a florist that might consider donating our flowers
for the supermodels this year? They can be roses or carnations.
We'll need a few boutonierres too. Our donor last year is not
available. If several of you know folks we might even get flowers
from several different places. Do you think you could help me with
donations?
Let me know ASAP - I'm scrambling on this one.
Hugs,
Rona
Your Bari-Godmother

So sorry you aren't going to be able to be in the fashion show Clem - won't be the same without you! But you sure can't miss your Mom's birthday so you have a great time and we will know you are with us in spirit and we will all have you in our heart at the show.

Selina
Rona,

Unfortuantely, I will not be able to attend this years fashion show. It is my Mom's Birthday and I am in New York that week on business and flying in to see her that weekend to be with with her. I will be thinking of everyone and I am so proud of each one of our "Skinny" or on the way "Skinny" members on thier hard work and their accomplishment.

Clem

Dr. MIles

November 17,2003

302/192/ 185

Selina
RNY (Lap) August 28, 2003
Dr. Schmitt
314/165 [INLINE]

I had the surgery with Dr. Schimtt on 03-20-03. Surgery with Dr.
Moor was 07-19, & 07-20-04.

I MADE A MISTAKE AND DELETED THE POST FROM A LADY WHO HAD HER PLASTIC
SURGERY AT BROOKWOOD THAT IS MY HOSPITAL I HAVE USED FOR YEARS AND I
WOULD LIKE TO KNOW THE NAME OF THE DR SHE USED.I HAVE ALWAYS HAD
EXCELLENT SERVICE AT BROOKWOOD AND THAT IS WHERE I WOULD LIKE TO HAVE
MY SURGERY WHEN THE TIME COMES.SO PLEASE SEND ME AN E-MAIL AT

OK I WEIGHED THIS MORNING AND I AM FINALLY 102 DOWN!!!!SEEMS LIKE IT
TOOK 14 DAYS TO LOOSE 4 LBS.I FEEL GREAT. I STARTED TAKING MORE GRAMS
OF B-12 AND THAT HAS REALLY MADE THE DIFFERENCE IN MY ENERGY
LEVEL.GOD BLESS ALL OF YA'LL JEANNIE THE BIG LOSER!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I had my surgery with Dr. Schmitt on 03-20-04. I started out at 345
pounds. I was in a size 34 or 5 x. I had a tummy tuck, a breast
reduction, and my arms fixed on July the 19th and the 20th.
At that time I was down to 173 pounds. I was off work 3 weeks and 1
day. Dr. Moor at Brookwood did this surgery and was GREAT!!! I came
home with 6 drain tubes. One in each arm, and 4 in the lower hip
pubic area. The tubes in the arms came out after a week, the tubes
in the pubic area came out after 2 weeks, and the tubes on the side
hip area after 3 weeks. I am doing great and feel so much better
about myself. I am down to 153 pounds, and in a size 12-14.
The arms were the worst. Even at that I would do it all over
again...TODAY!!! I am very happy with the outcome. It's funny to
look down and not see a stomach!!!!
I have BCBS ins. It did not pay for the arms, or the upper part of
the stomach. My cost was $7300.00. The price was for the hospital,
Dr., and to be put to sleep. My ins. covered the rest.

Its a furniture store up in Fort Payne.
Excellent Saving.
Cash Only or Credit card.
You can go find what you want, get numbers off of it and if they dont have it, they will special order it for you.
dogtown is an old name, The real name is Atkins Furniture Takes about 2 hrs to get there, I bought my childrens Wedding furniture there and saved over 1500 on each bedroom suit.
Rita

Hey gang!!! I just wanted to take a couple of minutes and give som