We would like to remind you of this upcoming event.
Support Group Meeting
Date: Monday, June 30, 2003
Time: 6:00PM CDT (GMT-05:00)
This is the regular weeknight meeting at MCE. Doors open at
5:30, meeting starts at 6pm.
Hi everyone,
I have my appointment with Dr. Schmitt on July 2! I have all my
records from my Internal Medicine doctor to take with me as well as a
letter from him recommending I have the surgery. Hopefully this will
make the process smoother and quicker for Dr. Schmitt as well as
getting that approval from Blue Cross Blue Shield. Can't wait to
meet you all at the meeting in July (just can't get to the one
tomorrow.)
I keep having to pinch myself - can't believe this is actually
happening.
See you all soon!
Selina
I've attended two seminars and plan to attend the
support group Saturday. Can someone tell me which
classroom and can I enter the building on the left
side where the blue awning is? I've been coming in
the main lobby of the hospital and taking the elevator
to 2nd floor.
Also, I've seeing some emails where people are getting
appointments in July & August. I made mine a month
ago and my appointment is not until November. I've
been real anxious about waiting so long, afraid
something will happen to keep me from being able to
have the surgery. But maybe there's a reason for me
to wait longer.
It's good to read all the postings about everyone's
experiences. I hope to be a part of the group real
soon. Thanks!
Dr. Groves' office called me this morning. It is set for July 2nd at
10:30 at Marshall Medical Center North (between Arab and
Guntersville).
Keep me in your thoughts and prayers!!
Lori
Hello, Im new to the group. Just got my first appointment with Dr
Schmitt August 8. I very excited about this. I have struggle with
my weight all my life. I will be attending my first support group
meeting this Saturday. Do I just show up and register? Im looking
forward to meeting everyone.
Vicky
Hi all,
This will no doubt be the first of a lot of silly quesitons, but do
pills still work the same way after surgery? I take daily hormone
replacement therapy and Ambiens for insomnia (not weight related). I
will always have to take these two medications. How does the
medication get into your system?
Thanks!
Selina
Hi all,
I am new to the site. Went to Dr. Miles seminar last night (what a
character!) and have my first appointment with Dr. Schmitt on July 2.
I am so excited about this - can't wait to have this done and see
those pounds go away forever!
I am 46 years old and celebrated my third anniversary in February to
the greatest husband in the world. We have two dogs, a scottie and a
westie. I am human resource manager for an archaeological firm in
Tuscaloosa.
I have the same story as everyone else mostly. Struggled with weight
since 2nd grade, tried everything, lost and regained about 50,000
pounds. Ready to get it right this time!
Just wanted to introduce myself and say hi. Will be seeing you all
soon!
Selina
Hi Everybody...........
Holly's surgery went perfect. She was a little sick at her stomach
yesterday but today is a brand new life for her. She is feeling
wonderful. She is up walking and visting others in there room
checking on them. Holly is a real trooper. WAY TO GO HOLLY!!!!!!!!!
Sherry Price had surgery yesterday. She is doing fine (Holly was
checking in on her). But still a little sick on her stomach.
Mickie
Does anyone know after weight loss does Blue cross insurance pay for Cosmetic surgery for excessive skin?
I would appreciate anyone who has had this done response.
As my one year anniversary for my WLS approaches, it is hard to
believe something so wonderful has happened to a fat girl like me!
In eleven months I have lost 108 pounds and went from a size 22 to a
size 10. I am truly blessed and not inclined to believe otherwise.
Dr. Schmitt has helped me change my life in a way that is impossible
to describe. Well, maybe, for an example; crossing my legs is
something that I think about a lot--when I look down and see them
folded beneath me and I am, like, "Wow, I can cross my freaking
legs!" To some people that thought would not normally be a part of
their lives', but, to me, I am amazed...
Thank you to each and every person who answered my silly questions
from the beginning of my nervousness before surgery to the last time
I wondered if I was eating too much (I am). You guys can honestly
call yourselves a "support" group because so much has been learned by
so many people in this wonderful little group! Best wishes to all in
their WLS journey and I am more than happy to answer any "newbie"
questions or "longer-term post-op" questions...I feel pretty
qualified!
Angela
Lap RNY 7/31/02 Dr. Schmitt
267/159
108 lbs. gone bye-bye
A word near and dear to my heart now. I do have a question though- I
know Rona and both Dr. Miles & Dr. Schmitt say that you can not
absorb more than 30 grams of protein at a time. What is 'at a time'?
How long between should I wait to know that my body is absorbing it.
I was thinking about this today as I was opening the top on my
wonderful strawberry protein drink and now I am concerned I have not
been waiting long enough between cans to be absorbing the full amount
of protein.
Thanks guys and look forward to seeing you all at Saturday's meeting.
I am excited because it is time to weigh and measure again!!!
Amanda
03/19/03 Dr. Schmitt
-56.5 lbs and -25.75 inches as of 05/17/03 (I will measure Saturday
morning and weigh at the meeting on Saturday afternoon. I am hoping
for 75 lbs lost)
Hi to all,
I am the angel for Holly Salchert. She is having surgery this
morning at Medical Center East. She is so excited but natually a
little scared. Please keep Holly in your prayers. She is listed on
obesityhelp.com. If you get a chance drop her a line on her surgery
page to let her know she is loved and we are looking forward to
seeing her soon.
Hope to see everyone at the meeting!!!!!!!
Love
Mickie
286/160/135
RNY Lap Aug 2002
Can I just say how amazing this Nectar stuff is? It is DELICIOUS,
and for the first time, it is not a struggle to get in my 64 grams.
This summer I'm in grad school, and I can freeze one overnight and
have lunch and dinner ready in a matter of seconds. I'm not a big
pina colada fan so I haven't tried the Carribean Cooler, but I love
the Very Cherry Berry and the Apple Ecstacy.
Anyway,FYI, FitnessONE.com has it for $23.99. I placed an order for
six and received my package within THREE days! For those interested:
http://www.fitnessone.com/load_frames.html?protein-
products/nectar_protein
Smooches!!!
Laurian
Hi,
This is my first post. Just thought I would say "hi" to all you
fellow travelers of WLS. My surgery date is next Friday, June 20th
at Medical Center East with Dr. Miles. I am having so many mixed
emotions. Not so much about the surgery, though some there too, but
more about saying "goodbye" to the many ways food has been in my
life. I hope I am ready. I bid your prayers. I doubt I am alone in
these thougts...so I hope you can encourage me through this
transition. I had a co-worker I used to work with stop by where I
work now and I told her of my upcoming WLS and she looked shocked and
asked, "has God told you you could have that?!"
Well...I hope and believe I have His blessing....but that kind of
question hits me harder than any of them. I do pray His blessing
over our surgeons, nurses, and all who are pre and/or post-op!
Godspeed ya'll!
Hi All,
Please let us know if you are going to need any full cases of protein at the meeting next saturday.... The 11 oz. cans come in chocolate, Vanilla, and strawberry ready to drink.
We also have the NECTAR in 3 flavors and the Designer Whey BLAST drinks in Ready to drink....
Detour bars and Uturn bars are also available...
You can e-mail us or call us, the # is 205-663-2190.....
Thanks..
Wes and Lisa
Can someone give me some info about when we can start having a glass
of wine, etc? I'm not interested, or haven't really ever been, in
the fruity drinks, but would like to know when a beer, glass of wine,
a martini can be tolerated. AND does it effect you differently than
before?
Hello Everyone,
Let me start by saying that I went to Dr. Schmitt's office on
Tuesday for my staple removal and I have lost 15lbs. However, I now
have a question. I think this question came up once before but I
can't remember what the responses were. When I first came home from
the hospital, I was feeling like if I took 3 bites of food, I was
stuffed to capacity and couldn't eat anymore if I wanted to. Now
since maybe yesterday afternoon, I feel like I am somewhat satisfied
with the amount of food that I have eaten, but not as full as I was
right after I came home. I feel like I don't want to eat anymore,
but definitely not stuffed. Is this maybe because I had an excessive
amount of gas on my stomach or have I somehow managed to stretch out
my pouch? Also, is it possible that it has something to do with my
drainage tube being removed, because I feel a little different since
that was taken out...almost like I did pre-op...like I didn't even
have surgery. Thanks for listening and any input would be very
helpful and much appreciated. Oh the other thing was that I was not
even close to being able to consume the amount of liquids I should or
protein, but today I drank a whole shake and it was about a 6 - 8 oz
glass that I had it in. I sipped it but I couldn't do that when I
came home. God Bless!!
Tonia
Just wanted everyone to know I called BC/BS today and they said I was
approved. I should get a letter in a few days and I guess Debra will
be calling to set a date. I can hardly wait! Amy
Well, i am new to the group and ready to get this thing done. i got
my date for my surgery. it has finially been set for 6\23/03. i cant
wait i'll be starting my journey at 365 lbs. if anyone has some
pointers on after the surgery let me know. well, i hope to post more
and see you all at the support group meetings.
later,
Brandon
I go the 18th to Dr. Groves office for the last appointment to
schedule surgery. I know I'll have more questions for him. What are
some good last minute questions you had for your doctor?
THANKS!!!!
Lori
We would like to remind you of this upcoming event.
Support Group Meeting
Date: Saturday, June 21, 2003
Time: 3:00PM - 6:00PM CDT (GMT-05:00)
This is our regular monthly meeting. We will be having a guest
speaker. Please contact facesofwls@... for information on
the speaker for this month.
Hi
I'm new to the group. I'm in the process of getting "things" done in prep
for surgery. Still have to go to Nutrition class, get o.k. from insurance company, and get date for surgery. Would like to hear from wls patients
pre and post op
Linda
I saw the news clip last night with the one and only Wes last night
on the 10 o'clock news. How great is it to know that some of our own
(Rona, Chan and Wes) are getting the opportunity to help someone who
truly needs help? I think we should all give them a pat on the back!
Way to go guys!
Amanda
I got the call this morning! I've been approved!!! I thought it would
take longer because it took a while for them to even get the
paperwork. Dr. Grove's office faxed the info to BC&BS on April 25th.
I call around May 22nd to see how the process is going... well, it
can't go if they don't get the paperwork!! BC&BS said they didn't
have anything on me! So, Dr.'s office sent it again on the 23rd...
STILL DIDn't GET IT! Sent it a 3rd time to a representative I'd been
talking to and she made sure it got to medical review and she marked
it Priority... I just knew I'd be a month behind on everything since
they never got the paperwork back at the end of April. BUT it looks
like things may just work out so I'll have at least that month of no
lifting over 10 lbs done before the first day of school... teaching
preschool special ed... I DO A LOT OF LIFTING.
On Cloud 9!
Lori
Rona,
Do you think there is a chance at the next meeting you could get a copy of the news broadcast and show it for all of us that didnt get to see it. It wouldnt take long and I am so upset that I missed it. Hope this finds you and yours doing well. LoJo
Hi All,
Just to let you know that Chan and I are going to be on the news tonight at
10:00 on Channel ABC 33/40. They are doing a story about a gentleman in Walker
County who weighs 900 pounds. He is not a patient of ours but they wanted some
information on surgical weight loss so they called and asked if they could stop
by and get some info. Chan happened to be here so they interviewed him too!
They interviewed us for 2 HOURS and said we could expect to be on camera for 15
seconds or so. ha ha ha ha ha Chan was awesome. I wish they would show his
whole interview. It was so touching - he was a rock star!!!!
Take care all!
Love,
Rona
Your Bari-Godmother
I NEED SOME INFORMATION, I HAVE A FRIEND IN FLORIDA
WHOSE DOCTOR HAS SUGGESTED THE LAP-BAND SURGERY
INSTEAD OF THE GASTRIC BYPASS SURGERY, MAINLY BECAUSE
SHE EXPRESS CONCERNS ABOUT THE BYPASS SURGERY BEING
IRREVERSIBLE AND ABOUT BEING OFF WORK. I TOLD HER I
DID NOT KNOW ANYONE WHO HAD USED THE LAP-BAND - HAVE
ANY OF YOU? I HAD MY SURGERY WITH DR. CHRISTOPHER AT
SHELBY AND HIS OFFICE DOES NOT RECCOMMEND THE LAP-BAND
PROCEDURE. I GOT SOME INFORMATION OFF THE INTERNET
BUT I WANT SOME PERSONAL INPUT FROM YOU ALL!! THANK YOU!!
I've attended a couple of the seminars and am really
excited. I attended one last year and let co-workers
talk me out of it. (I then tried one more attempt at
WW and lost a few lbs., and gained a few.) After
attending the meetings, I carry the information packet
around with me like it's the Bible. I've researched
on i-net and talked to several who have been through
the surgery already. I couldn't get an appointment
for initial evaluation until Nov. 10. I'm kind of
anxious about having to wait so long, but good things
come to those who wait. I plan to attend some of the
support group meetings in the meantime. Is there
anything else I should do while I'm waiting? I keep
hoping to get a call saying someone canceled and get
offered an earlier appointment (Dr. Schmitt). Not likely!
In a message dated 5/29/2003 9:14:12 AM Central Standard Time, Jake71193 writes:
The CROSS
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A young man was at the end of his rope, seeing no way out, he dropped to his knees in prayer
"Lord, I can't go on," he said. "I have too heavy a cross to bear."
The Lord replied, "My son, if you can't bear its weight, just place your cross inside this room.
Then, open that other door and pick out any cross you wish."
The man was filled with relief and said, "Thank you Lord," and he did as he was told.
Upon entering the other room, he saw many crosses; some so large the tops were not visible. Then, he spotted a tiny cross leaning against a far wall.
"I'd like that one, Lord," he whispered. The Lord replied, "My son, that is the cross you just brought in."
When life's problems seem overwhelming, it helps to look around and see what other people are coping with. You may consider yourself far more fortunate than you imagined.
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YOUR CROSS
Whatever your cross
Whatever your pain
There will always be sunshine
After the rain
Perhaps you may stumble
Perhaps even fall
But God's always there
To help you through it all
Funny how you can send a thousand "jokes" through e-mail and they spread like wildfire, but when you start sending messages regarding the Lord, people think twice about passing it on.
Funny, isn't it, when you go to forward this message, how many on your buddy list will not receive it because you're not sure they believe in anything?
Funny? No!
Sad, and thought-provoking...
May God give you the strength and courage to pass this along to everyone on your email buddy list....
I JUST DID!
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Hello Everyone,
Drum Roll Please!!!! Dr. Schmidt's office called me yesterday
with a surgery date of June 2, 2003. Can you believe that! I was in
the support group on Monday really just thinking about all of the
people that were waiting for a surgery date and I was thinking that
it would probably be about the end of July before I got the surgery
and I was keeping my fingers crossed for that. Well, I guess it just
goes to show what prayer can do.
Anyway, you all please keep me in your prayers that everything
will go smoothly with no complications and I will see you all on the
other side. God Bless You.
Love in Christ,
Tonia
hello everyone, how are you doing? i am doing very well. i went to the doctor today and i have never been able to be weighed on their scale. but today i did it. and found out that i lost two more pounds since the last time i weighed. i am now 80lbs down in 3.5 mo. i also wore a pair of jeans that my mom bought for me two years ago. that i never could get in. they do not have any streach or elastic in them at all. i have never been able to that. i am so very happy right now. i also am going on my frist realy date with someone i really like and who really likes me. you know not because i am settling. i know we are going to have a great time. oh and also started doing low impact areobic the first time i did it for 23 min and the second day i did it for 30min. and i was not worn out for the rest of the day. i felt so good. i was not out of breath and was not hurting at all. it was great. well i think i have talked i enough. sometimes i think i could talk about this all day.
since there are so many things that happen to me everyday that totally suprise me. the things i can do and the way i feel after i do them. the way people treat me now is wonderfull. it makes me kinds sad to think that just 80lbs ago i was not worth talking to but now i am. since i am the same person now that i was then just a lot happier and a little smaller. but oh well. that is life and it is great to be on this side now living for the first time in 24 years. well everyone have a great day.
toya c
398/373/372/363/360/350/340/3332/317.2/ and still going
birmingham al
I feeling a little sad this evening, but it's nice to have a place
to "talk" through things with poeple who've been there.
Because I know my tendency to focus on the numbers, I don't even own
a scale. I promised myself that I would only weigh at meetings;
however, I'm cat sitting at my mom's where scales abound. Stupidly,
I stepped on to a scale and was disappointed by the results. I've
not lost as much as I would have hoped. I don't even know how
accurate these scales are, but I've allowed these stupid numbers to
get me down.
I am really trying to remind myself of the real reason I went through
with the surgery -- my health. These ten weeks since surgery, I've
had such energy borne from my awareness that I am doing something
profound to improve my life. How easily, though, I've managed to
lose that feeling. Okay, so what if I have hit a plateau? I've not
been doing all of the things I should be nutritionally or physically;
perhaps I can take this a lesson on the importance of taking
advantage of every moment of these first months post-op.
Laurian : (
Haven't heard from them lately or seen them at a meeting. Are they
okay?
Amanda
Hey guys! I have added an album of me in the photos section, in case
you want to check it out.
Hope to see you guys on Monday!
Amanda
03/19/03 Dr. Schmitt :o)
-51 lbs and -25.75 inches as of 05/17/03
Anyone tried Nectar Protein? Here's an idea... remember those Dip
Stick candies or whatever it is called... dipping the candy stick
into the candy powder? With the Berry Cherry nectar protein... take a
sugar free cherry popcicle and DIP IT IN THE NECTAR PROTEIN POWDER!!
IT is like being a kid and eating that dip stick candy. I had a wild
hair and thought I'd try it, it's pretty good.
Lori
Pre-op waiting on approval
Hi guys, my name is Justin. I had the WLS six weeks ago tommorow. I have lost 80 lbs. I am a little wooried though. I am able to heat a little more now than I was the first two weeks. Is this normal or have I streched my new stomach out?
Hello Everyone,
I just wanted to let you all know that I called BC&BS today and...
(Drum Roll Please)...I AM APPROVED!!!Yeah!!!YIPPEE!!! God is so
good. I have been trying to have this done for the last six years
and there seemed to always be some sort of stumbling block placed
before me, but I just thank God that he is more powerful and mighty
than we can even imagine. And He is faithful and just. He will
never leave us nor forsake us.
I am anxiously awaiting a date now. Debra is out of the office
until Monday which I think they meant Tuesday since Monday is a
holiday. Can anyone give any insight as to how long after you're
approved does it take before you actually have the surgery?
Also the lady in Mobile that posted, Debra sent my paperwork off
on May 1st and BC&BS approved it yesterday, May 20th. I've heard
that they have approved people in about 2 weeks, hence I was
beginning to worry, but I guess it just depends on how busy they are.
But good luck.
Take care everyone, I think I'm going to attend the meeting on
Monday so I hope to meet some of you all then. God Bless You.
I am new to the group (and to posting) and wanted to make sure this came
through ok. Looking forward to hearing from you all.
Mary
I am new to the group and am researching WLS. I have Poly-cystic
ovary disease, and insulin resistance. I am 230, 5'4". The
information I have uncovered about PCOS is that there is no cure, and
symptoms can only be "managed". One of the most disturbing symptoms
of course is weight gain, and the difficulty with loss due to insulin
resistance. Like many of you, I'm sure, I've gained and lost the
same 50 pounds at least 50 times. I would love to hear from anyone
else who suffers with this disease, and how the surgery has affected
their symptoms. Looking forward to hearing from you!
Mary
I'm a new member and all the info I've been reading on line is very
informative. I have been worried about being approved by blue cross/
blue shield, but it seems like more people are approved through them
than any other insurance. They also told me at Dr. Miles' office
everything looked good for being approved. They were suppose to mail
my papers today, can anyone let me know how long I can expect to wait
to here from BC/BS? I'm going to the meeting on Monday. I live near
Mobile but prefer to have my surgery done by Dr. Miles, I think it
will be worth the drive to have it done right!I hope you all will let
me know about all the "good" protien to eat out there. I think that
is the only thing I really worry about after the surgery is eating
the right food, and getting enough vitamins and protien.
"Waiting for a date and approval"
Amy
Hey Amanda can you send me the link to get the sugar free shaved ice
flavors. Congrats on you weight loss.
Kathy
4/18/2003
Dr. Schmitt
29.5 lbs
Hi everyone this is Teresa at Mercy 35235@..., I
had my surgery on 05.14.03, seem to be doing pretty
well at this point. Am I only allowed liquids, well
anyway I ate applesauce and jello and drank water. I
hope to be on the losing side soon.
Hi all,
If you will need any full cases of any of the protein supplements, please call or e-mail us asap so we can get it ordered for you and have it at the meeting on Monday the 26th. The # is 205-663-2190. You can e-mail me at dtpgoose@...
We have the Designer whey Blast ready toi drink in 5 flavors, the Extreme Smoothies (Cans) in Chocolate Dream, Vanilla Cream and Strawberry Supreme. We also now have the Nectar Proteins in Very Cherry Berry, Apple Ecstacy and Caribbean Cooler. They come in a 36 serving Tub (23g. per serving) , we have single serving samples of all 3 of these at the meetings.
Thanks
Wes and Lisa
Anyone seen Tim lately? Just wondering if he's still around. I
haven't seen him posting in a LONG time.
Lori
Hey gang! Monday morning again.... fun, fun!! I just wanted to say
hello to everyone and see how you guys were doing! For those of you
who didn't get a chance to go to Saturday's meeting, it was super
informative. Dr. Kim Schmitt is so nice and explained all about sleep
apnea. I don't have it so I had never met her and I didn't know how
bad it was on some of you.
Anyway, I just wanted to give you guys an update. I forgot to say how
many inches I had lost at the meeting. It's like when you stand up
you forget everything because so many good thoughts and feelings come
rushing to your brain and it just has a system overload... LOL.
Anyway, today is my two month anniversary. WOOHOO! I have lost 51 lbs
and 25.75 inches. For me the weight loss is great, but the inches
lost let's ME know I am changing!!! I feel just wonderful. Sometimes
I get disappointed in my lbs lost, but then I remember that muscle
weighs more than FAT and I AM GAINING MUSCLE!! Well I just HAVE to
be. I mean I do water aerobics 4 times a week and ride my bike the
other days vs. NO EXERCISE pre-op so some of this has to be turning
me into a lean mean machine. LOL- hey don't laugh at me, this is my
way of dealing with this. Just kidding!
Anyway, I know I asked this a couple of weeks ago, but I like it when
everyone shares their milestones. I found a new protein that is
GOOD... I had to laugh because Rona made me announce that as one of
my milestones... lol. She is so funny! But seriously guys, share your
joys with us!!
Amanda
03/19/03 w/Dr. Schmitt :o)
-51 lbs and -25.75 inches
We would like to remind you of this upcoming event.
Support Group Meeting
Date: Monday, May 26, 2003
Time: 6:00PM CDT (GMT-05:00)
This is the regular weeknight meeting at MCE. Doors open at
5:30, meeting starts at 6pm.
Hello everybody! I'm a newby. This is my first post. I don't get to
spend much time online, so today I have been reading 94 emails. I
love the support out there. I have a surgery date of May 27!! Dr.
Schmitt. I am so excited. I am making 2 great changes in my life at
the end of this month. After 14 years I am transfering out of the
Post Office I have been working in and moving to one closer to home.
They are willing to wait on me until after the surgery. Big changes
but I have a lot of support.
I'm adding everyone of you to my prayer list!
God Bless!
Sue
Hi all. Well, I went through with the vena cava filter procedure, but
it didn't work. Dr Miles tried but apparently my artery didn't want
to go along with it so he couldn't get it in. So after I made an
idiot out of myself in recovery by bawling like a baby, we came home.
Now we wait to see what happens. Dr Miles told Stan he wanted to do a
vena cava gram ( I really don't know what that is--but o.k.) and see
if there is another artery to use. What has me bothered is why it
didn't go through. Maybe mine turns sideways or something. Oh well,
I've come to far to turn around now. And even if I wanted to I don't
think Chan would let me. He was at the hospital before we were and
stayed til we left. So I'm thanking you buddy for sticking with us.
Your the best!!! When he asked me last year if he could be my angel-
he really meant it. And I thank God for him.
To make a long story short-I guess my surgery is probably cancelled
for Tue 5/20. All things happen for a reason. So I have to keep
telling myself that. It'll happen someday if the Lord's will.
Everyone stay encouraged and keep loosing!
Kathy
I saw the Dr last Monday and says I am doing really well and losing my weigh in the right pace. I have at least 40 more to go. I am really excited. [INLINE]
However, I have found myself getting weak at the ballgames with their "coke and crushed ice" I was doing soo good over a month and this week I have been, oh let me have a sip here and there. I sure hope I don't blow up my pouch... What am I doing to myself?? I feel like a failure. Of course, I didn't GULP the drinks just SIP.. but still [INLINE]
I keep telling myself stop here thats it.. no more losing weigh, but hey I want to go down 40 more lbs and want to feel thin, feel good and be able to do more than I have ever done in my life.
Am I just going through a Phase ( temporarily)?? Help!!!
Michelle Lay
Hi All!
We are putting the 2nd Annual Come As You Were / Go As You Are together and it's
going to be AWESOME!
The date is August 30th. The location will be announced next week but let me
tell you - it's going to be exciting!!!
We are thinking we will have to limit this year's show to 75 people. So, you
will need to get your sign up sheet completed and turned in EARLY. Sign up
sheets will be available at tomorrow's support group meeting.
We are compiling a list of songs and particpants will be able to choose the
song's they walk to on a first come, first served basis.
It's time to start getting excited and start looking for that beautiful "after"
outfit. Make sure you have a "before" outfit as well.
See you at tomorrow's meeting where Dr. Kim Schmitt will be speaking on Sleep
Apnea in the morbidly obese. It should be very interesting.
Love,
Rona
Your Bari-Godmother
Hello Everyone,
My name is Tonia and I am new to the site. I have had my 1st
consultation with Dr. Schmidtt and am waiting for an APPROVAL from BC
& BS (I'm praying and keeping my fingers and toes crossed). Anyway,
I am very glad to hear all of you alls weight loss successes thus far
and look forward to joining y'all in the near future. Take Care and
God Bless!!
Hey Gang....I am a NEWBY..this is my first post ever!!!
I had my surgery on APRIL 5, 2003. I have lost 34 lbs and this has been the best
thing I have ever one. It is a joy reading mail from all of you on this post
site. I love getting the mail. It has answered alot of questions that I had and
was afraid to ask. Thank you all. I too am having trouble with the "PROTEIN" I
hate the shakes....I hate the powder. So I dont have too much left do I ? I am
going to the meeting on Saturday to see if mail I can get some on those crystal
things MAYBE I can do that...
I m sick of the rain here in Birmingham too. I want summer to get here.
SUNSHINE....will do us all good.
Hope to get to meet alot of you Saturday!!!
Have a great day!
GINA
Hey everyone, and Happy Mother's Day to all you moms, step-moms,
grandmoms, foster moms, and those who have ever been like a mother
to someone.
I've been a little down the past week. Everything had gone so
smoothly until now. I had my approval from Blue Cross less than 2
weeks after my initial consult! But now my WLS doc is telling me
that I haven't been compliant enough over the years
with my diabetes doctor. I can easily see their point. They're
worried that maybe I won't be compliant with my post-surgery doctor
visits or maybe even my diet. I'm not sure now, however, what
they're going want me to do. I already have my next appointment
with my diabetes dr in 3 months in July, so maybe after that if I've
been as good as possible, my WLS doc will schedule me for
before Christmas.
Thanks for listening. You guys are just awesome.
Brenda
Hello Group,
It's been a while since I posted anything, anywhere..lol. I am sick of this rain, anyone else sick of it too???? I want to get outside and plant some more flowers. I planted several yesterday and I knew I should of finished up yesterday.
How is everyone? What's going on out there? Is there anything new in the world of gastric bypass?? LOL
Just saying hello!!
Leah K.
2-13-03
Dr. Miles (MCE)
-80 lbs and counting!!
is any one going to the wla convection is Aug we can get a discount if we can get 10 people together to go please let me no e mail to jsims123@... thanks
It is so WONDERFUL to see and hear from everyone again. I thought for a while there that everyone had forgotten the E-Group. I hope everyone is doing great. I will not be able to make it to the Sat. meeting so I will see everyone on the Mon. meeting hopefully. Talk to you all later.
Melissa
Hi all,
Some of you have contacted us about the new chocolate smoothie protein drinks we have at the meetings. If you know your going to need a case of them please let us know a.s.a.p. so we'll can be sure and have them. Also if you will be needing a case of any of the Designer Whey Blast Drinks please let us know.
The Smoothies are also available in Vanilla and Strawberry via pre-orders.
The Designer Whey Blast flavors are Kiwi Strawberry, Grape, Orange, Absberry Ice (Raspberry), and Tropicurl (a blue fruit punch taste)
You can e-mail us at dtpgoose@... or you can call at 205-663-2190.
Thanks
Wes and Lisa
Hey I need help I had surgery on 4/18/2003 and have lost 25lbs but I
have not lost anything in over a week. Can somebody tell me how to
break this plateau. I am starting to get real discouraged. Please
help. Thanks Kathy
Hello All,
I read all your post but have never posted before. I was doing well after my surgery 1/22/03 but then my life came tumbling down around me. My two teenage girls had a horrible car wreck and after 5 days in ICU, I lost my 14 year old daughter Amber. My 16 year old Alecia was driving the vehicle when they wrecked and had a lot of major problems as well..she is home now and I am taking care of her 24/7..Of course after all of those days in ICU and long days in the hospital and through the funeral,etc..I have gotten totally off my plan..I did continue my vitamins and drank Atkins shakes some in the hospital but I just can't seem to get back on track..my hair is thinning really fast..I was down 73 pounds before the accident and am down 95 + now..
Any suggestions on what to try ??
Thanks, Tammy
We would like to remind you of this upcoming event.
Support Group Meeting
Date: Saturday, May 17, 2003
Time: 3:00PM - 6:00PM CDT (GMT-05:00)
This is our regular monthly meeting. We will be having a guest
speaker. Please contact facesofwls@... for information on
the speaker for this month.
For me it varies- alot. Some days are as follows:
ProCal shake with fat free skim milk (for the added protein) with
strawberries- awesome flavor and this starts me with 24 grams of
protein
I try to drink a lot of fluids before lunch.
For lunch I have been eating either grilled chicken or tuna. I did
try some deli meat and cheese the other day and it contained like 17
grams of protein (and is cheaper) so I might start eating this for
lunch. I also occasionally eat like refried beans. Sometimes I get
pintos and cheese from Taco Bell or a chicken quesadilla and I pick
the chicken and cheese out and leave behind most of the bread.
By the time I can drink after lunch, I feel like the day is gone so I
normally don't get in much fluid wise until after I eat dinner.
For dinner I am eating about the same things that I eat for lunch. I
have tried many things (pasta, rice, etc) but I find I do much better
just eating meat. This also helps me get in my protein.
I ate broiled fish from Captain D's the other night and that was
wonderful. We have gone out to eat a couple of times lately due to
schedules and I have found it easier than I had imagined. Most places
I have been (Chili's, OCharley's, Captain D's, Cracker Barrel, Back
Yard Burgers, anyplace Mexican) I was able to find something healthy
and WLS friendly on their menus. You just have to look!
Anyway, I drink the remaining of my fluids before I go to bed.
I hope this helps- but please remember that just because these things
work for me, doesn't mean they will work for you. It is a trial and
error process. And somedays I can't eat something I ate the day
before. It just depends.
Amanda
03/19/03 Dr. Schmitt
-40.5 lbs as of 04/28/03 (I have decided not to weigh again until the
next meeting)
Hello friends, I just wanted to share with you that I have lost total 55 lbs since my surgery Feb,6 2003. My closet is empty and have at least 4 outfits I can hang on to for the time being.
A wedding dress that I wore 13 years ago that fit TIGHT, now I can just pull over my head and it was loose. And I had gone to the space camp andknow that blue outfit (space suit), well I can just almots fit in it. THe zipper meets maybe 1 half inches. Cant' zip it yet, but it won't be long..
I have walked 2miles daily, and do a little jog here and there. No longer a diabetic.. Wow, feel soo great adn was looking at my high school pictures and I think I am down to that size ( in body). Except for the hang over belly I didn't have then, I have now.. But its shrinking as I walk etc etc. IT's amazing feeling. Eating good... takingit easy tho. but feel wonderful..
SOmething, I didn't notice til yesterday, that I usually have to get someone to help me reach to the bottm of the washing machine, and yesterday, I did it by myself. I could reach.. Isn't that strange?? Just wanted to share this with you guys..
Michelle...
I had my last test today... a stress test... that wore me out! Dr.
Groves' office sent my paper work into BCBS on April 25th. I hope to
hear something around next friday. They said they usually hear from
them in around 3 weeks.
HEY Rona or whoever... Do you give out goodie bags at your monday
night meetings? Just curious. Be my luck I won't have a date by the
May 17th meeting and hopefully my date will be before the June
meeting. Dr. Groves hasn't gotten too far up to his neck in RYN's
yet. :)
Well... I'm almost there... just standing waiting to CROSS OVER!! :)
Have a great day everyone!!
Lori
Amanda, if you don't mind,tell us what a typical day's meals/snacks,
etc. are for you now almost two months out.
HI!!!!
Just wanted to share my good news to everyone here .. (since I got a husband who's a jerk but thats an understatement-who's not happy at all, but has to get over it cause I'm doing it for ME!!) Dr. Eich's office sent my letter to BCBS for my BREAST REDUCTION April 23 and got word I'm APPROVED as of May 6 th!!!!I'm so excited!!!!!!!!! had to share with you all!!!!!! Today (Wed) was my 11 yr anniversary and that was the best present I could've gotten!!!!!!! He was LIVID!!!!! He's either gonna like it or lump it.
Thanks to Wes and Lisa and Rona, Chan and Felica for always sticking by my side!!!!!
Ok Chan hang on that bath is coming as soon as I see your skinny tail!!!!!!!! I'm so proud of you too!!!
I will call you I promise as soon as things slow down here!!!!!shew!!!! Tony 1 day in the hospital WOW!!!!
You go!!!
Take care and thanks for your support guys!!!
Love yall Kristy
I am so glad this resource is available. My surgery is Monday5/6/3
Hey All!
I KNOW I know all of these answers but currently they have escaped
me! So can someone give me time frames on trying the following foods:
1) Nuts- Peanuts are looking tempting to me, but I am not sure when I
can try these. They didn't upset me before surgery, so I was
wondering how they affect you post-op.
2) Also, do you guys know how long we are suppose to wait before
trying vegtables? I am CRAVING corn and didn't know when we could try
it. I did eat some Cantalope (spelling ?) last night and it was
AWESOME! No nutritional content but still a good occasional snack.
Hope all is well with everyone.
Amanda
03/19/03 Dr. Schmitt
-40.5 lbs as of 04/28/03
Amanda wanted us to share milestones so I thought I'd share this one. I walked
in a March of Dimes walk a thon for almost 6 miles and didn't really even get
tired. We had so much fun that my husband and I took the dogs and did almost
the same walk the next day! Then, today I started walking briskly for 30
minutes at lunch. I just want to be healthier and it's been FUN!
Another milestone is that Wade has a hernia and has to have surgery. For once
it's not ME being the patient. He's a little nervous but Dr. Miles is doing it
and I know he'll be just fine!
Love,
Rona
Your Bari-Godmother
Hey Gang!
I hope everyone is doing okay and that May has been a great losing
month for everyone! :o)
I wanted to share a milestone with everyone: This past weekend I went
to the Beale Street Music Fest in Memphis, TN. We walked (my guess)
about 4-5 miles and I was not out of breath nor did I feel the need
to sit down. We walked down Beale Street onto Riverside Drive and
then stayed down there and walked around for about 4 hours- standing
the entire time because it was an outside concert- and then walked UP
A HUGE hill and back down Beale Street to get to our parking spot.
Anyway, I was laughing and talking while doing this and not laboring
for air. This was a HUGE step for me. I normally get out of breath
walking Walmart- well I did pre-op, so anyway, I just wanted to share
this with you guys.
Also, I am having problems getting my protein in, I think. I do drink
some of it and some I get from foods. I just need to know if anyone
knows where I can get a listing of what foods contain how much
protein. I think I maybe getting in enough, because I have been able
to eat chicken etc. But I normally eat out for lunch and I am not
able to find out what amount of protein these foods contain. Anyway,
help with this would be appreciated.
Anyone else have any milestones? I am thinking waiting for this
month's meeting is going to be hard- LOL. I miss chatting with
everyone!
Amanda
03/19/03 Dr. Schmitt
-40.5 lbs post-op as of 04/28/03
Robin-
I was not nervous before hand, so I can't offer words of advise. Just
remember how great it is going to be to be a LOSER!!! :o)
You are in my thoughts-
Amanda
03/19/03 Dr. Schmitt
-40.5 lbs as of 04/28/03 :o)
Hello,
My name is Robin and I am a pre-op until May 15th. I have been wanting and waiting this surgery for so long and now it is here. However, I am very nervous about the whole thing.
Any words of wisdom???
Robin Farmer
Pre-Op till 5-15-03
Hi Every Body,
This is "The ChanMan" letting everyone know that I am still alive and
kicking and getting better every day. My Tummy Tuck went off with out a
hitch and Dr. Eich removed 21 lbs.
My RNY was lap so I had no idea of the pain level of a large gut cut. I
am bouncing back just not quite as fast as I was anticipating, but heck,
I am only a week out. I will be very happy when the (3) drains and 115
(I think was the count) staples are removed. And if you are wondering if
it as worth it and if I would do it over...... YES, in a heartbeat!
Kudos to the Great Staff at MCE especially....
Rona, Dr. Miles, Dr. Eich, the O.R. Staff & 6th floor personnel for the
excellent service and for giving me back the gift of living a life of
normality.
I thought I would let everyone know how things are going. My surgery
date is quickly coming upon me and I think I've hit the last minute
jitters. Most of me is excited and the other part I guess is scared
silly! Chan says that is normal so that makes me feel better.Knowing
that the other side is going to be so much better helps alot. I think
having the filter put in has un-nerved me more than the surgery--and
they say it's nothing to it. So I'm probably getting worked up over
nothing. But on the good side, I have lost 69 pounds pre-op and as of
the meeting Mon night I only like 17 more to be where Dr Miles wanted
me before surgery. I never thought I could loose 42 pounds in 2
months but it looks like by the Grace of God I will make it. There
are so many people who believed in me when I couldn't believe for
myself. After daddy passed away on March 24, I really thought about
just forgetting it all. But between Stan and Chan they pushed me on
and helped me see through my grief that this was for me--not daddy.
And now that I have 18 days left-I'm glad they did. Wes and Rona
deserve credit to cause they have kept a check on me and Wes has
pushed me to drink protein and water. It has really worked. Everyone
in the group has been so great to keep encouraging and making us feel
a part of. If I started naming people I'd miss someone so I won't
even try. But thanks to all of you. This has been a sorta long
journey, but worth every mile. (210 miles round trip--ha!) But the
best is yet to come.
Sorry this is so long. I hardly ever post, but this is the one place
that I can spill my guts and you all understand. I have to see Dr
Miles on the 9th--then have the filter put in and my last pre-op
visit on the 14th. Then the meeting is on the 17th and I have to be
back down there on the 19th for the pre-op class and surgery on the
20th. I think we should move down there. I wonder if Chan's barn is
still up--maybe we could share a room with the goats.
To everyone waiting for a date or a first visit--hang on. Already I
can say the wait is worth it. And the last few months seem to fly--I
promise!! Kathy
avis davis where are you? have u changed your email address? i
can't get any email to go through to your address i have please email
me soon.
love u,
jennifer mitchell
Help, does anyone know where I can find a little more detail
regarding when your new stomach can start trying new things?
Everything I have is so vague! What about breads other than toast,
crackers, i.e. noodles in some casseroles and soups, tops to pot
pies, etc. Is everything so vague because they want you to be so
careful and trial/error alot?
Does anyone know of a Dr, or has had WLS at Brookwood Medical Center?
My friend wants the to have the surgery but her insurance will only
pay if she has it at Brookwood. Any info will be appreciated. Thanks
My surgery was Monday, a week ago, 4/21. I've gotten caught up in
watching Regis and Kelly and would like to enter their Home giveaway
contest. I missed the first clue though. Anyone know what it is?
My date is june 23 and I am a little nervous
I am going to start going to the support group in gadsden al
would have had a earlier date but recently widowed
need prayers and good thoughts
Hello Everyone--Believe me im not in any hurry to have a tummy tuck
at all. I have had all the surgeries I can handle for the past 9
months. I do however have a question? Does anyone know if United
Healthcare usually covers the tummy tuck?
I could get into another smaller size if I were to go ahead and have
it done but right now--I just cant handle the thought of any more
pain.
I hope everyone is doing well.
Joe and Connie I hear you two are doing so so great!! Im so proud
of the two of you. I never heard back from you after your little
vacation. I hope you two had a wonderful time.
Granmaw Peg thank you so much for all the love and concern you have
sent my way. It has meant so much to me. I have been down so much
lately but having friends like you, Jenn, Rona, Wes, Tim, Chan and
so many others has made this last hard road easier to bear.
Im still fighting to keep these seizures under control but one day
at a time is all I can do. I will come out Victorious!!! Just give
me a little time....LOL
Can you guys believe our little buddy Jenny? She has aleady lost
over 65lbs. Im so proud of her. I cant wait to see you again Jen.
One of these days I will be healthy enough to drive myself back up
to MCE for a meeting.
Take care everyone. Those of you still waiting for a date or
approval hang in there. Your day will come..the wait is well worth
it.
I went to my neices wedding yesterday. I had the best time mainly
because my neice, my sister-in-law, brother-in-law and many others
did not recognize me until I spoke to them.. I LOVED IT.....WOO
HOO..and I was wearing my size ( 11-12 JEANS ) with the embroidered
flowers all the way down the legs.....WOO HOO!! I had a great time.
Love & Hugs-------Pop Tart
Open RNY May 20th. 2002
Dr. Miles--MCE
MY MILESTONE YESTERDAY---STARTING SIZE IN JEANS WAS 24 WORE SIZE 11-
12 YESTERDAY IN JEANS. IM HALF THE SIZE I WAS ALMOST A YEAR AGO.
AINT LIFE GRAND
Hey guys.....long time no speak, I am trying to get some information
on this since it seems that I am experiencing it. Seems that if I
eat anything that remotely has any type of carbs in it I have a
reaction about an hour or two later I have extremely low blood sugar--
-I have researched some on the web and know that it is called late
dumping syndrome where my body dumps insulin to take care of
the "sugar" but by the time it gets to where it needs to go the food
is gone already so therefore it reduces my boold sugare level (the
only time I have had it tested was last week and it was 55)----If
anyone has any info on this or can point me in some direction it
would be greatly appreciated.
ps. I have had nor have ever had any problem eating carbs like them
making me sick right off the bat like some people have..........and
have only recently started having this problem. It is occuring more
often and I am trying to get a handle on things and keep my blood
sugar at some kind of consistency.
Hi All!
Just a reminder that our new F.A.C.E.S. of WLS T-Shirts will be
available for sale at Monday night's support group meeting. We have
4 different styles and 5 colors. They're $15.00. Hope to see you
all there! The group gets to keep a portion of the proceeds so it's
a fundraiser for F.A.C.E.S. in addition to just being alot of fun.
Dr. Kim Schmitt will be speaking at our Saturday meeting in May. She
specializes in Sleep Apnea which, as most of you know, affects MANY
surgical weight loss patients. It should be a great presentation.
We're gearing up for our Fashion Show in August - scouting locations
and such. This year we're hoping it will be a full scale gala.
We're looking at the Wynfrey as one possible location. Wouldn't that
be fun? Start looking for your "after" outfit because you're going
to make GREAT supermodels.
Thanks to all of you who donated at last Saturday's meeting. Wes and
I are going to the court house next week to file our non-profit
organization papers which will allow us to apply for grant money.
Once we can do that we can do more and more with the group without
always having to ask for money. I appreciate your support with this.
Happy day!
Rona
Your Bari-Godmother
[INLINE] HEY CHAN THIS IS POP TART. I KNOW YOU HAVE JUST HAD YOUR SURGERY AND IM PRAYING THAT YOU ARE DOING WELL!! AFTER ALL YOU HAVE ALREADY ACCOMPLISHED I KNOW THIS SURGERY WAS A PEICE OF CAKE FOR YOU NOW WASNT IT?
IM SO GLAD THAT IT'S OVER FOR YOU AND I CANT WAIT TO SEE THE EVEN THINNER CHAN. YOU HAVE BEEN SUCH AN INSPIRATION TO ME AND TO SO MANY OTHERS. IT IS JUST SO GOOD TO SEE YOU REAPING THE REWARDS OF YOUR OWN HARD WORK...MAY EVERY DAY BE BETTER THAN THAN THE DAY BEFORE AND MAY GOD CONINUE TO BLESS YOU AND YOUR WIFE WITH HAPPINESS AND CONTINUED GOOD HEALTH AND BLESSINGS.
LOVE AND MANY HUGS TO BOTH OF YOU----POP TART
I attended Saturday's meeting at 3:00 and it was absolutely
wonderful. On Tuesday I received my surgery date. My surgery is May
14, 2003 and I am so excited and can't wait to be able to stand and
say I have reached my goal. Thank you so much for the support.
I got this off of another WLS group I belong to. Thought I'd pass it
along to all of you in case anyone wanted to walk around Nashville. I
don't know the time, or any other details. I have sent an email to the
address listed and I will pass along the details as I get them.
Tim.
I hope all of you out there have a wonderful and joyous Easter. As I
rode the city streets this morning I saw so many families out doing the
Easter Egg Hunt thing and having a ball. Even Joy got up an hour early
to make an Easter Basket for Caitlin. She was munching the ears off of
a fluffy yellow bunny when I walked in the door a few moments ago.
As an Easter Thank You, I'd like to say thank you to each of you for all
of the wonderful things you have allowed me to share with you. As I
look back at the pictures I have taken, the friends I have made, the
laughs and smiles I have been a part of, I know in my heart that I am
truly one of the luckiest people in the world to be able to call all of
you, my friends. Thank You!
Tim.
Everyone be sure and tune in or set your VCR for ABC tonight 7pm central
time for John Stossel's hour long special "Help me! I can't help myself!"
about "gambling, eating, and other 'so called' addictions." If it's anything
like that segment on 20/20 the other day it's going to be VERY interesting.
For those of you that missed 20/20 he made the comment that "Al Roker had
the willpower to get up at 4 am every morning to do the weather but had to
have his stomach stapled to lose weight." stay tuned..
stacey
We would like to remind you of this upcoming event.
Support Group Meeting
Date: Monday, April 28, 2003
Time: 6:00PM CDT (GMT-05:00)
This is the regular weeknight meeting at MCE. Doors open at
5:30, meeting starts at 6pm.
Dr. Atkins, author of the Atkins Diet books has died from head injuries
he received when he slipped on ice. He was 72.
Tim.
In a message dated 4/15/2003 11:37:07 AM Central Standard Time, Jake71193 writes:
Well, for those of you that made it to the GIANT TENT TOOL SALE, great!
For those of you that missed it, you'll have to follow their
taillights to the Atlanta Metro Area to see what you missed. Caitlin,
Wes and I were down there till 11:30pm last night and at 9:am this
morning helping them box it all up and stuff it in some tractor trailers
for the trip east. All of you will be super proud of Caitlin, she
worked like a man all day long and made her first $40.
Taking the 200 x 100 tent down was really interesting. We only had one
center pole out of 4, fall unexpectedly. Guess who it decided to head
for, that's right, little ole me. But I'm smarter than a pole any day,
so I just sidestepped it and got a canvas "overcoat" instead. I did get
a little overheated and was extremely sensitive to the sun. But this
was my first real outdoor workout since I started taking a BP med a few
months ago. So I'll just have to learn how to adjust, and to seek more
shade, and quicker than I did today. Thought I was going down for the
count folks.
All in all it was a fun day, I got the new experience of handling a
really big tent and working with 2/3 of my kids too. I got paid too,
no, not in tools! Think I'll buy a new digital camera...
What neat stuff did all of you do today?
Tim.
In a message dated 4/15/2003 11:34:50 AM Central Standard Time, Jake71193 writes:
[INLINE] [INLINE]
HOW TO STAY YOUNG
(George Carlin)
1. Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes age, weight and height.
Let the doctor worry about them. That is why you pay him/her.
2. Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down.
3. Keep learning. Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever.
Never let the brain idle. " An idle mind is the devil's workshop."
And the devil's name is Alzheimer's.
4. Enjoy the simple things.
5. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.
6. The tears happen. Endure, grieve, and move on.
The only person who is with us our entire life, is ourselves.
Be ALIVE while you are alive.
7. Surround yourself with what you love, whether it's family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge.
8. Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it.
If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.
9. Don't take guilt trips.
Take a trip to the mall, to the next county, to a foreign country,
but NOT to where the guilt is.
10. Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity.
AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take,
but by the moments that take our breath away.
If you don't send this to at least 8 people.... who cares?
[INLINE] [INLINE]
We would like to remind you of this upcoming event.
Support Group Meeting
Date: Saturday, April 19, 2003
Time: 3:00PM - 6:00PM CDT (GMT-05:00)
This is our regular monthly meeting. We will be having a guest
speaker. Please contact facesofwls@... for information on
the speaker for this month.
Hi Folks! This looks like it might be "up our alley" if you know what
I mean. Who wants to head the committee for all of us's that want to go???
Tim.
Hi everyone! Just wanted to introduce myself. I haven't been to a Faces
meeting yet. I am going to try and make it one of these days. I live in
Huntsville and attend WINGS of WLS locally. Anyway, I had lap RNY in
Birmingham at Carraway with Dr. Laws and also Dr. Roberts (Huntsville). My
surgery was 5/21/02 and I have lost 110 lbs. I did have some post op
complications. I had a leak that was discovered the day after surgery. I had
to have a second lap procedure to see if they could repair the leak (they
couldn't find it) and place drains and a feeding tube in. I spent 10 days
total in the hospital, 5 of them in ICU. After I got home, I had fluid on my
lungs that almost had to be drained, and anemia. I also came home with the
drains and feeding tube in place, and kept them for several days. But I
recovered, and am here to say I'd do it all again in a heartbeat. Life is
so much better on the losing side. I can do things now I never thought I'd
ever be able to do again. I am about 35-40 lbs. away from my personal goal
weight, and 10 lbs. away from no longer being "obese."
stacey (stone)
lap RNY 5/21/02
starting weight/BMI 294/50.5
--
Wisdom from Calvin and Hobbes:
³Iım at peace with the world. Iım completely serene. Iıve discovered my
purpose in life. I know why I was put here and why everything exists... I am
here so everybody can do what I want. Once everybody accepts it, theyıll be
serene, too.²
Last night, for the first time, I used my card (the one that says I've had the surgery and asks restaurants to give consideration...). I always figured it would be embarrassing and just wouldn't be worth it.
I used at Golden Corral in Centerpoint. Of course, the cashier read it and was clueless and had to go ask the manager. I watched them and fortunately he said "oh yeah, sure" and told her which key to press for me to get the child's buffet and he went on his way. I was thankful.
I was about to go to my seat when the manager walked up to me and asked how much weight I had lost. I told him 91 pounds. He smiled a big smile, shook my hand and congratulated me and said "that's great!". We continued to talk a little; he had a few questions, he was genuinely interested...It wasn't embarrassing and it was worth the effort and I saved $5.00.
So, if you haven't yet used your card, go ahead, it's not as bad as you may fear.
Hey everyone!!!!!!!!Long time no post!!!! I have been busy busy busy
and havent posted in awhile and just wanted to let everyone know how
I've been doing. I have lost 77lbs so far...in 15 weeks might I
add...and FEEL GREAT!!!!!!!!! I have went down several sizes in
clothes and lost 2 sizes in shoes...which I am kinda sad about
considering I have TONS of shoes that I LOVE!!!! My parents are both
doing great as well...my dad is down 75 and mom is down 40 i
think...so needless to say between the three of us we have already
lost more than a person!!! Hope everyone is doing well!!! By the
way...my hubby is now going thru the process of getting ins approval
for surgery so keep your fingers crossed...we are making this a
FAMILY affair!!!!
LeyAnn
12/9/02(-77lbs)
Does anyone have or does anyone know someone who has continued to
have diabetes after their surgery? I hear a lot about people who no
longer need their diabetes meds afterward, however, I know not
everyone is so lucky. I've been an insulin-dependent diabetic for
25 years, so I'm not sure if there's much hope of coming off of
insulin entirely (though my requirements should drop substantially).
Bright blessings to all,
Brenda
Well... And that's about all I can say too. After a long day of house
work and chasing down some elusive shrink wrap for pallets for my
friends at the GIANT TENT TOOL SALE, Matt came over and we headed off to
Huntsville to watch his friend Jonida Bego (pronounced "Yo neda")
perform in a one woman play that was fantastic! More about it later.
We stopped at the Cracker Barrel on the way home and had a decent dinner
at a backwards CB. It was set up in a mirror image of any CB I have
ever been in. Made me feel like I had entered the twilight zone. When
I cut the truck off, I noticed a funky sound from the engine as it "took
5". We ate, got back in the truck and it cranked up just fine and the
noise was gone. For a little while. We hopped up on I-65 South and
headed home. We had gone about 10 miles when I had to decelerate for
some slower traffic. The noise came back, and got louder and louder.
Sounded like a rod coming through the block, but it was hollow sounding.
Louder, louder, silence. Coasted to a stop right before a bridge and
tried to crank it. Engine turned over very fast and easy. I've heard
that sound before. I pulled the oil fill cap and had Matt turn the
engine over while I watched the valve train for movement. No movement,
so, that means, no timing belt.
Put out the "Man Overboard" distress call on my Nextel radio to all my
Jeeping buddies and my oldest Son Wes was the closest available rescue
ride. At least it was a beautiful night. Matt and I laid on the hood
and watched the stars and clouds as they drifted by.
So, in the morning I get to go recover my truck with a tow dolly or a
wrecker and park it in the "repair" line that is forming in front of my
house. Still have to put a transmission in The Mighty, Mighty GeoVan,
and the Bronco needs a fuel pump, and now the truck needs a timing belt.
At least the Montero is still chugging along. I'm about to run out of
vehicles!
Like I said, What a day...
Tim.
Can anyone describe what the preop and post op procedures are like,
i.e. how many needles, tubes and when those are removed?
Hello Everyone, I don't post much, but I got a date for my surgery
(May 9th)and I wanted anyone who could to give me advice on ways to
stay healthy after my surgery. I am 5 feet tall and I weigh 330lbs. I
will possibly have to have open surgery as opposed to lap. Anyone who
has had the surgery open please email me with your experiences.
Thanks, Tamika
I'm new to this group, but so far it's been very interesting. I've
noticed lots of recipes and tips here, and now I have one too. I
receive a newsletter from CookingFreeDaily with lots of hints and
(sometimes)great recipes. Here's one from today's newletter:
Recipe of the Day: Atkins Friendly Cheesecake
2 8-ounce packages of Neufchatel cheese
12 packets Splenda
1/2 tsp. vanilla extract
2 eggs
Mix cheese, Splenda and vanilla. Add eggs. Mix well with electric
mixer. Bake in pie plate at 350 F for 40 minutes. Cool three hours.
Serving: 8; NUTRITIONAL INFORMATION: Calories: 180; Total Fat: 34;
Carbohydrates: 43; Protein: 9.1
Sounds yummy, huh.
Take care and enjoy life.
Found out yesterday, on April Fool's Day, that I have a date!
YIPPEE! I'm scheduled for surgery with Dr. Miles on June 17. I'm
scared, but I'm so excited!
Holly Salchert
Jo Jo,
Far be it for me to give anything away, and as far as I know I am still
on Avis's good side. So all I will say is, it has something to do with
her pre-op rear end, a slide at a local water park and crew from the
Bessemer Fire Dept. if I am remembering correct.
They say the 1st thing to go is your
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awww, never mind, I forgot what it is!
"The ChanMan"
Hello to everyone in the Group...what a wonderful support and
informational group you guys have been. I don't post much, but I
read everyone's questions and answers--you guys are wonderful! So,
here I am eight months post-op from my gastric by-pass with Dr.
Schmitt at MCE (I have lost 105 lbs. and have gained my life back)
and I have a question...
I haven't necessarily experienced "dehydration", but have been
diagnosed with kidney stones from lack of enough water. I have read
on obesityhelp.com that stones seem to be an occuring effect from
gastric surgery. Has anyone else in the FACES group suddenly
experienced stones? Does anyone know how to keep them from
happening? The first time, I went to the doctor in exquisite pain
and the second time I took some pain medicine, drank water
and "waited it out" in pain. I know that water is the key, but what
is the cause? I have never had stones before in my life.
Any answers that someone could provide would be a great help in
trying to keep myself out of pain and in control!
Angela
7/31/02
105 lbs. bye-bye
Dr. Schmitt
Hi Justin,
I am so very excited for you. You are going to feel so much better &
will be able to enjoy life to the fullest. I had surgery last August.
My surgery was Lap RNY at Medical Center East. I started at nearly
290 lbs. After 8 months I now weight 178 lbs. I for the first time in
year am starting life all over.
Good for you Justin. You will soon be a BIG LOSER!!!!!!!!!
Love
Mickie
286/178/135
are corn chips ok? i've been so sick and everything comes up and
these stay down i just worried there not ok for me? HELP!
Jennifer
I have found a great ice cream made with SPLENDA!!!!! here are the nutrition labels. I found it at the super Walmart in Calera for 2.12. It tastes great or at least the chocolate does.
Love,
Robin
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Can someone confirm that we have a meeting Monday March 31 please?
I wanted to say thank you for all the well wishes that I received
during my surgery. I go back to work tomorrow full time, I have been
working part time from home the last week getting ready for it. I am
not really thrilled about going back but it will be fine. I am doing
alot better and am tired of my binder, I will be ready to tell it
goodbye. I have to wear it 4 - 6 weeks though so I still have a
little while, it will be 3 weeks on Tuesday.
Hope to see all of you at the meeting tomorrow night. I need to go
through my closet and find some clothes I can wear next week, the
binder takes up so much room, I can't wear alot of my work clothes
that I was wearing before the surgery. I know it is just the binder
though because if I put them on without it, they are two big. I'm in a
catch 22, oh well. Never thought I would ever pull those knit pants
out again, but I think I will be looking for them in a little bit. I
have lived in shorts since my surgery, wish I could wear them to work.
Oh well, I will survive.
Love ya all,
Lisa
-95 since 12/11/01
Does anyone know of a doctor I can get an apt. with on Monday to help me with a letter to show that my TUMMY TUCK is medically nessacary?
Let me give you some of the details. I am changing jobs and I will start my new job on April 21st. So If I have to have the tt done now before my insurance runs out and while I have the time off work. IF not I will have to wait a year to have it done. Doctor Eich has talked to the insurance company. And now they are saying that they need proof of rashes , treatment, and proof that it is medically necessary. I am scheduled to have the tt on Tue. if I could get in to see a doctor and them write me a quick letter and fax it over to insurance ... they will put my case in a expidatied review statues... do you think I have any hope of getting my tt???
Diane
Millie Slaughter needs ride for the FACES Monday night meeting. For
those that don't know her, Millie is blind, and I think it would be best
for all of us if she didn't drive to the meeting, although she'd
probably do a better job than most of the people I encountered on the
freeway tonight. She has to rely on her WLS Family to help her out on
meeting days usually for just a ride home, as she can usually find a
ride from someone in her building to bring her to the meetings. If you
can help her out, she would really appreciate it. She is a wonderful
person and a real clown to talk to. No, really, she's also a Certified
Clown and does parties and performs with a local Clown Troupe too.
I would be happy to give her a ride anywhere, anytime, but, The Mighty
Mighty GeoVan is still sitting in the street in front of the house
waiting for a transmission "donor" to meet an untimely demise, so I am
still in my little truck (which overfloweth with crapeth) and I can only
seat two (on a good day). Joy may or may not make the meeting as she
has a possible "surprise" inspection coming up and has been working late.
If you can help Millie out with a ride back to Southside (24th and
Highland) she would love you dearly. Call her at 930-9950. Thanks!
Tim.
LOVE starts with a SMILE [INLINE] , grows with a KISS [INLINE] , and ends with a TEAR. [INLINE]
DON'T cry over anyone who won't cry over you.
Good FRIENDS are hard to find, [INLINE] harder to leave, [INLINE] and impossible to forget. [INLINE]
You can only go as far as you push.
ACTIONS speak louder than words. [INLINE]
The HARDEST thing to do is watch the one you love, love somebody else.
DON'T let the past hold you back, you're missing the good stuff. [INLINE]
LIFE'S SHORT. If you don't look around once in a while [INLINE] [INLINE] you might miss it.
A BEST FRIEND is like a four leaf clover, HARD TO FIND and LUCKY TO HAVE.
Some people make the world SPECIAL just by being in it. [INLINE]
BEST FRIENDS are the siblings God forgot to give us. [INLINE]
When it HURTS [INLINE] to look back, and you're SCARED to look ahead, you can look beside you and your BEST FRIEND will be there. [INLINE]
TRUE FRIENDSHIP "NEVER" ENDS. Friends are FOREVER.
Good friends are like STARS [INLINE] [INLINE] [INLINE] [INLINE] You don't always see them, but you know they are ALWAYS THERE.
DON'T frown. [INLINE] You never know who is falling in love with your smile. [INLINE]
What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry? [INLINE]
Nobody is perfect until you fall in love with them. [INLINE]
Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end.
Most people walk in and out of your life, but only FRIENDS leave footprints in your heart. [INLINE]
Send this on to everyone special in your life, even the people who really make you MAD sometimes
and to the people whose lives you want to be in!!!
And send it back to the person who sent it to you if they mean something to you!!
Remember, every minute spent angry is sixty seconds of happiness wasted.
AWESOME PRAYER:
May today there be peace within you. May you trust God that you are exactly
where you are meant to be. "I believe that friends are quiet angels [INLINE] who lift us to our feet [INLINE] [INLINE] when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly."
Just send this to (4) people and see what happens on the fourth day.
Be good to yourself.
Welcome Justin. Where are you having your surgery?--- In
Hey Justin! Welcome to the gang, glad you could join us. I wish you
luck with your surgery and soon look forward to welcoming you to the
other side. As you might have noticed, we all ask about everything on
here so don't be shy. LOL
Anyway, congrats and best of luck. Please keep us posted.
Amanda
Hi,
This is Justin. I recently joined the support group. Anyways I was
just announcing that I am having surgery on April 11th.
Hey Rona,
So glad to hear that your surgery went well and everything was ok. Hope your recovery goes well. See ya at the meeting. Jo Jo
Our support is needed for our men and women in uniform! Here are some
ways you can let them know you care.
Tim.
Got this from the IPSC list thought you all might be interested
Was just wondering who went elsewhere to have their surgery done, why
you decided to go there and how did everything go?
Lori
Maybe some of you already do this, but as I was desperate for a
protein source I created a tasty drink.
8 oz Fat Free Skim Milk - 9 grams protein (I forgot amount of carbs)
1 pkg of the Vanilla Protein Pro Cal 100 - 15 grams protein
2 cut up strawberries
Okay- we have this little hand held blender and it chops the
strawberries to NOTHING and well mixes the protein and milk and
strawberries. If you didn't know better, you would think this a drink
for people who didn't count fat grams, protein or calories. IT IS
AWESOME. I think it would be just as good without the milk, just use
water as I normally do with the Pro Cal 100, but like I said I needed
a boost of energy so I added the milk.
By the way today (Tuesday 3/25)I am 6 days POST OP. I can tell a
difference in my clothes but I won't weight until I go see Dr.
Schmitt Wednesday 3/26 to have my staples removed- AAAHHH. I will let
you know how it goes.
Amanda
03/19/03- Dr. Schmitt
I had the unique pleasure of dumping all the work I had planned for the
day and going to watch ChanMan and Catfish tune up their bowling arms at
the lanes beside Target on 280. And I don't have to tell you how it
warmed the cockles of my little heart to see both Wes and ChanMan out
there bowling like pro bowlers. Wes even let me
bowl with his ball and take a shot or two at the pins. Now, I gotta
tell y'all I'm an Alabama Football man, so I just painted a target on
those little white pins and went for the "long bomb". From the way
everyone looked at me, I figured I had done it wrong. Wes whisp