Preop

2006-09-30 13:33:33

Hi, This is my first time posting to a group. I weighed 333 (on my
scale @ home 312) two weeks ago @ the dietician. On Nov 6th I met
with my endicronglist (sp?) due to my insulin levels being 3 times
what they should be. She prescribed Meridia and Metformin (blood
sugar medication) - and suggested that I would be a candidate for
surgery. I had read articles and Carnie Wilson's story over the last
two years but did not think it was an option financially and since I
belong to Kaiser did not think they would cover it. My endo
(shortened) said that Kaiser would cover it if I qualified which she
thinks I would - by BMI is @ 52 with two comorbidities (high blood
pressure, insulin resistant and edema in my left leg). So 3 days
after my doctor visit I called her back and said that I wanted the
surgery. She said I would need to meet with a dietician and
pyschologist and once she got their referrals she would send them
on. I have met with both and they both said yes they would recommend
it. Now I just need to know what happens at this point?? Is there
anyone out there that knows how this process goes and how long it
takes to get the surgery?? Any info would help... Thanks for
listening...

Long timer here!

2006-09-30 12:50:00

Hi group!
I am 5 years out (12/1/97) here and alive, well and healthy. I gained
a bit
of weight back from my low (about 30 lbs) and think my body likes
where I am
now but I am working with a trainer from the gym to lose body fat and
get in
better shape.
If I can answer any questions, just let me know!
Lisa
RNY-distal 12/1/97
www.wlscoach.com

online protein source

2006-09-30 04:49:54

If you are looking for a good online source for protein and other
nutritional supplements check out
http://www.nexternal.com/shared/affiliates/?CS=nfw&AID=75&Target=Home
I have found their prices to be lower than GNC and my local stores
and have had no problems with ordering or recieving shipments.

Any old timers out there?

2006-09-29 23:10:58

Hiya Lorie here,

Surgery 3 years in April of 2003, wow does not seem possible. Is there any one out there that has had this surgery for over 2 yrs? Or am I the old one of the group? Just wondering..

For all those who will soon have this surgery, Good luck and I will be thinking of you and can't wait to hear how things are going for you. For those who are fighting the insurance company-s, DON'T GIVE UP!! The waiting is sooooo worth it..

Take care,

Lorie

free weight loss surgery journal

2006-09-29 21:50:11

If you would like to download a copy of an excellent weight loss
journal to help you through pre-op to reaching your goal, visit
www.wlshelp.com and go to the Message Board page, simply register and
click on the book icon to download your free copy. this website also
contains excellent information, inspiring pictures and patient
stories, and a message board. I hope you find the journal and the
website helpful.

Hi from Marc

2006-09-29 14:17:45

Hello all !!!!!! I just wanted to say good luck to everyone who is having the surgery soon and wish all who are post -op are doing well . My surgery is scheduled for Jan-22 and I am nervous and excited at the same time. I wish all the best and to everybody a Merry Christmas!!!
Marc

part one

2006-09-29 10:03:43

Ok today was my appt.with my pcp and she is behind me 100 percent and
she will write anything i need so today i made an appt with a surgeon
for dec the 18th..
Cant wait for part two..
Allan
Cincinnati ohio

Has anyone had this problem?

2006-09-29 00:36:18

I had my surgery 4 weeks ago, and was doing well at first. However,
for the past 1 1/2 to 2 weeks, I'm having alot of trouble keeping my
food down. I get a pain in my chest when I eat, then must vomit,
during which time I vomit a large amount of clear mucous. It
doesn't seem to matter what I eat; eating sugar-free pudding was
going pretty well, but today I vomited that. However, I had mashed
potatoes and roast (which I sliced really, really thin) for dinner
tonight, and that stayed put. Earlier this week I had an upper GI
done, an obstruction x-ray study and lab work done, and I'll be
seeing my surgeon on Monday to try to get to the bottom of this.
Anyone else have any experience with this? Thanks, laci

new member in NJ

2006-09-28 12:26:02

hello everyone.. i just got approved after about5 months of fighting
with cigna. I am having surgery in Jan. I am located in Northern NJ
and i am looking for some new friends/support groups. Can anyone help
me out?? thanks Christine

TAZISHEREE67

2006-09-28 10:16:08

I AM 7 WEEKS OUT. IF YOU WANT TO E-MAIL ME THAT WOULD BE FINE.
MDICKEY@... MOE

Suggestion----Moderators

2006-09-28 06:50:25

Hi,
I have a suggestion. We may already have this here, but I am alittle
slow (since my surgery). I would be nice to maybe have some kind of
link to a person as a support one on one. A different person for
each stage of our recovery. Like a few of us taking turns to answer
or be there for the new comers who haven't had surgery yet. Then a
couple more taking turns for the ones who just had it.....so, so on.
Maybe on or so to take over recipies, depression, etc. I would be
willing to help in anything. We are together. What do you all thinK?
Debbie

WLS Coach

2006-09-27 22:19:22

Greetings!
Recently, I celebrated the five year anniversary of my own weight
loss surgery. What a journey it has been! Those of you who are pre-op
or newly post-op are in for the ride of your life. It is an amazing
journey of both physical and emotional healing and growth.
I have always considered myself a natural counselor/mentor/coach.
Imagine my delight when I discovered that there is a growing
profession doing just that. I decided to take my experiences on this
journey, and my career objectives and combine them into a fee-based
service that I could share with my fellow sojourners.
Thus is born http://www.wlscoach.com. I have studied for the past 8
months and will soon be certified as a "coach." My goal is to offer
my services as a coach to anyone contemplating WLS or who has had WLS
of any type. I can help you with both emotional issues as well as
more practical matters such as eating and exercise. Coaching is about
goal setting and succeeding in reaching those goals.
I invite you to review my site and contact me for additional
information or a free consultation about my services.
I wish each of you all good things as you make your way to better
health and happiness.
Lisa Mahon
OSSG owner and moderator

Carnie in New Orleans

2006-09-27 21:53:51

Just a note to anyone in the New Orleans vicinity....
Carnie Wilson will be conducting a presentation in New Orleans on
January 8, 2003 at 5pm. She is being sponsored by the hospital where
I had my surgery (and I now work for my surgeon full time). It is
free admission but reservations are recommended.
To find out more information you can go to:
http://www.stcharleshospital.com/stcharleshospital/default.asp
It should be a great event so if you are anywhere near here we'd love
to see you!!
Bec

Here I am

2006-09-27 07:57:37

Well, here I am. 1 week-3 days-10 hrs since I had my surgery. I am
on my way to becoming a different person (at least physically). This
was my last DREAM, to finally to be thin, pretty, healthy! So why am
I so unsure now? Why do I wake up and think...yeah, right, I am gonna
be overweight all my life. I wake up believing that the doctor
really didn't do the surgery, only took out my gallbladder,
eventhough, I can hardly eat. I am hoping and praying this is what
majority of us go thru. I have search the net, read articles and
gonna go to my first support group this evening. HOW can this be true
though, how in the world can I be thin? I don't see it, I cannot see
ME as thin. I hope to be able to help others when I learn how to
help me too. So when ever I 'learn' something new or find out
something that will help us, I will post it.
GOOD LUCK to you all.....we are in this TOGETHER!
Debbie

oh my gosh!!! I'M APPROVED!!!

2006-09-27 04:21:15

YEAH YEAH YEAH! (DOING THE HAPPY DANCE). I'm sitting here at work,
get a call from Qualchoice, figured it was for something work
related. Shelly, how are you today, we have great news, your surgery
has been aproved. I about fell off my chair!! I'm soo happy!!! yeah
yeah yeah!!!! (shaking this big ole butt) hahahahahahahaha

New Group Started

2006-09-26 21:37:50

Hey everyone,
I have started a new group for Gastric bypass. I encourage you to
stay a member of the Gastric_bypass group, for there is alot of
information that can be learned here. The group I have started is
for residents of Alabama. My thought with starting this group is to
get support and information for friends and family in reference to
gastric bypass. So if you are a resident of Alabama please join. The
membership is open.
GASTRIC_BYPASS_OF_ALABAMA
THANKS FOR YOU TIME.
John D. (cwg32)

insurance approved :)

2006-09-26 21:24:23

YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEES after 2 long
months United Healthcare has finally come thur for me
...i got my acceptance letter in the mail today
YEEEEEEEEEE HAW i am so happy i cried lol dont tell no
one though lol....to all those who are still waitin
dont give up do like i did call and pestetr the shit
out of the insurance groups sooner or later they will
get tired of ya lol...well wish me luck :)....Also any
one who lives in Louisville and had this surgery done
by Dr Mark Shina id like to hear from you on your
experience with him ...thanks all have a great day god
bless you all
Jo Marcum
(360)

smoking

2006-09-26 17:00:31

I quit smoking as soon as I found out I was going to
have the surgery. I'm taking Wellbutrin which is the
same thing as Zyban. I'm 34 and have smoked since I
was 15. A day doesn't go by that I dont want a
cigarette. Breathing is CRUICAL is your recovery and
my Dr. gave me a breating machine to use before and 3
weeks after surgery. I had the ROux-en-Y so I don't
know about any of the others but, Smoking and drinking
alcohol can give you what they call a Marginal Ulcer
which is an ulcer below the band and that's bad.
That's what keeps me from smoking everyday. hang in
there, I know its tough!
Leah

A brand new life

2006-09-26 09:50:37

I am home after surgery on Monday(the second), it was hassle free and
I was up that afternoon. I had very little discomfort and everything
is going well. To my new friends(the Gastric group) if you need
anything of me please do not hesitate to email me. Thanks for all
the support. John D.(cwg32)

I was approved today...

2006-09-25 20:53:50

All -
I've been working to get approved (by my insurance company) for two
months. I persisted and finally today, I was approved for surgery.
Next week I go to see the nutritionist. Unfortunately, I will
probably be waiting until Feb/Mar to have the surgery because the
doctor (surgeon) is moving to another hospital and dates cannot be
scheduled until the actual move.
I'm doing the happy dance.
Wendy

I'm New to the Support Group

2006-09-25 19:32:47

Hello my name is Patty Gonzalez i'm 28 year old from Hialeah,FL .
I am scheduled for gastric bypass surgery on Dec 16. I am both
excited and extremely nervous. I would really love to hear from
anyone that has already had the procedure so I know what to expect.
Also, anyone planning to have it around that time too. My email is
patty606@... Thanks. bye

Supplements?????

2006-09-25 11:33:20

I am learning about the process and am wondering about how a person
gets all the nutrients in to the body. Does Carnation Instant
Breakfast do it or a product like Ensure? or Slimfast?
I don't mean all the nutrients but ......for the beginning until you
can eat food with variety. I know you will have to always take some
kind of supplemental viatmin but what do they suggest?
I will have other questions and have not read old questions so if
this has been answered, sorry.
thanks.
Lisa S.

Alcohol?

2006-09-25 05:48:56

When can you have a little alcohol after open RNY surgery? From what
I have read beer is out of the question or am I wrong? If you can
have alcohol, what kind of drinks can you have? I was curious with
the holidays coming up.
Thank you,
Michele

North Miami Here

2006-09-24 19:43:33

I had surgery in Jan 2002 and lost 180 lbs so far.
www.browardobesitysurgery.com
this is the center I went to.
Any one in the area please write to
art2d24m@...

APPROVED!

2006-09-24 15:24:29

My insurance company rejected the surgery, but I just found out my
husband's insurance company (my secondary) approved!! I'm scheduled
for December 30 with Dr. Marc Bessler at Columbia in New York. Now I
have to keep my New Year's resolution!!

SMOKING

2006-09-24 14:01:53

Hi, I'm waiting on my ins approval at this point. I am 240 pounds
and am 5'7 which puts me at exactly 100 pounds overweight. I don't
have any medical problems that I know of but have a problem with my
joints (especially my knees) and get out of breath very easily. I
saw the psychiatrist and he's going to fax my "sane" report to the
ins company. Now I have to go and get lab work done and hopefully it
will go through. I'm having a hard time quitting smoking and have
tried the patch, the gum and Zyban. Zyban worked for a little while
but it started to give me back headaches. One question I do have for
you all is, I want this surgery so bad that I'm going to quit smoking
right now as I type this - but after the surgery, will the cravings
for smoking come back? What happens to my stomach if I smoke a cig
post op? Anyone going through this?

Hi, Denise :-)

2006-09-24 10:59:22

You have 105 pound loss in four months?!? AWESOME!
I too have been at a stand still for the past four weeks. I had my
surgery on Sept. 10th 2002 and have lost 47 pounds. I started at 298
and have been hovering at 251(at 5 feet 8 inches my goal is about
140). It's made me very depressed and anxious. I know weight stalls
are normal, but I never thought I would hit one this early. I keep
thinking that I'm the only person this surgery isn't going to work
for. I'm eating virtually nothing and very little carbs. I'm just
never really hungry, and when I am a little cottage cheese or protein
shake can satisfy me completely. I do feel great though, feeling
healthier then I have in quite a while - and my diabetes has
completely gone away, no more medication for me. I need to start
exercising - I know that is the key. I walk maybe one or two miles
about twice a week. I need to incorporate it into a regular part of
my lifestyle on a daily basis.
Anyway, I'm rambling on and not really offering any help to you. I
just wanted you to know that you are not alone. Keep doing what you
are doing, maybe cut out some carbs - and get your body moving.
Good luck - I look forward to hearing of your further progress.

My Introduction

2006-09-23 23:01:48

Hello everybody,
My name is Denika Menis, and I have been considering having this surgery for a
long time. I will be 30 in January. After finally having a baby after many
years of infertility due to PCOS, I think I am ready. My big decision now is
finding a doctor. Are any of you from North Carolina? Do you know of any good
doctors in or close to North Carolina. If I did have to travel, it would be OK.
My son was born with a bilateral cleft palate and lip and we have been traveling
to New York for his repair, so we can handle traveling, but I'd rather not have
to. My main concern (and especially my husband's) is finding a safe experienced
surgeon. I have lots of other questions, but this is the biggy right now.
Thank you,
Denika Menis
--

Weight loss is Stuck...what to do now?

2006-09-23 18:21:55

Ok people...I'm at a stand still...I have been at 305 now for about a
month or so. Should that happen so soon? Only been about 4 months
since surgery. I had thought I gained, but I checked that, so I'm
happy with that, that there wasn't any that is. Any suggestions on
what to do? I would really appreciate it a whole bunch!!! :-)
Denise
Start: 410
Present: 305
Future: Still stuck at 305, but my goal at this point is 299 for
starters and go from there....

Update

2006-09-23 08:57:41

I know I have not written in a while. But I have read all the mail
and I'm glad to hear that so many of you all are doing so well.
I hope to big a good loser also.
Pre-op is over.
Surgery is a go.
December 12, 2002 @ 7:00am
at Torrance Memorial Hospital in Torrance, CA
My surgeon is Dr. Milton Owens of
Coastal Obesity Center @ Chapman Memorial in
Orange, CA
Dennis Warner
Hawthorne, California

Finally Made the decision

2006-09-23 01:39:21

Hi All,
Well, I finally did it. I committed to having the surgery done. I
have been thinking about it for over a year seriously and I am going
to the surgeon again on the 7th of Dec. to tell him I'm going to
have the surgery. I called the head of the program I have to go
through to today too and have an appointment to see her on the 19th
to be evaluated...measured, questioned, etc. My insurance already
approved me so that's ok. Now I have to start getting all my tests
done, go to the support group meetings and wait for a date. I feel
like a huge weight (no pun intended) has been taken off me. I've
read so much about all the different surgeries and have decided on
the RNY Laproscopic bypass. I have about 100 pounds to loose. I
know I'm not as heavy as some of you out there who have had this
surgery, but believe me, I need it too. I am 4'11" and on my tiny
frame, 100 pounds extra is alot!! I also have very bad arthritis
and have already had a total knee replacement last Jan. I don't
want to have the other knee done and the excess weight is not
helping me.
I know I will probably have to wait a long time for a surgery date,
but that's ok now that I am sure I'm going to finally do it.
Good luck to all of you in the same boat, and best wishes to
everyone who has already had their operation.
MaryJane

Just learning

2006-09-22 21:23:18

I need to know who's picture is in the photobook. It's titled "This
is me 170 lbs lighter. I wanted to see before pics too!
I want to know the downside of the procedure. I need to know if
it's right for me. Can anyone help me? :)

Hi there

2006-09-22 19:10:10

Hello everyone!
I'm new here. I had never thought of looking for
support online until now. Of course I did all of my
research online but didn't feel the need to talk to
anyone about it until I had the surgery. I had RNY on
Nov 18th, 2 weeks ago and I feel great. The weight is
slow to come off but I know that will change. I'm in
NE Florida so if there is anyone in the area I'd like
to be in touch. If anyone has any questions please
feel free to ask. I'd love to help as much as I'd like
to be helped.
Leah

new here

2006-09-22 14:04:46

hi,
i haven't had an rny yet, in fact i haven't even had a consultation
with a doctor yet, the problem is i live in a rural area and its hard
to find a doctor who will talk to you about it.
I am 29 and i weigh over 300lbs,5'5.5" I have 3 kids and i need to
get healthy for them, and me! i have some questions and so does my
hubby, it worries him to think of me going under the knife. He thinks
this is to drastic of a step but i have fought with my weight all my
life and recently was diagnosed with PCOS which in my case hinders
any kind of weight loss. He also needs it. he is 6'7 and is over
400lbs but he is scared to do it! right now i can't think of my
questions but when i remember them i will post them.
thank you in advance,
Serena

Blood gas draw

2006-09-22 10:07:11

Oh, yeah, BTW.. I had to have the blood gases test. Dr. said it was
standard when you have sleep apnea. That way they know your usual
level and try to maintain it in the hospital because you can't use
your C-PAP for at least two weeks. But I haven't used my C-PAP since
the surgery. Shelly

Hi.

2006-09-21 23:52:51

Not sure if I've posted here before, My name is Shelly and I had the
open RNY in August and am down 70lbs. I live in North Miami, by
Aventura, and could really really use a workout/walking friend/buddy.
Right now I'm looking for a job so have no set schedule, let me know
and we could hash one out. Also, if someone wants to car pool to
support group meetings-I'm in! I got my surgery in Jupiter so looking
for one down here. Let me know, Shelly

NEW MEXICO

2006-09-21 14:07:43

ANY ONE FROM NEW MEXICO???

BLOOD GAS

2006-09-21 12:49:55

NO BLOOD GAS FOR ME. I AM 7 WEEKS TOMORROW, I HAVE LOST 50 POUNDS.
YEA!!!!!!!!!!!!!! FEELING PRETTY GOOD............. MOE

ABGS?

2006-09-21 05:18:05

IS IT REQUIRED THAT ALL CANDIDATES FOR SURGERY UNDERGO THE ARTERIAL
BLOOD GASES,,,,, OR ARE THERE SPECIAL CIRCUMSTANCES?

Gastric bypass

2006-09-21 04:28:11

Hello everyone. I am a new member who is thinking about having the
surgery. My husband has already had it and is doing well. He has
lost about 60 pounds since his surgery in September. Thank you in
advance for any responses I may receive.

Polls

2006-09-20 16:26:44

Hi all,
I am contemplating the surgery and have created a new poll. Please
take a look at the poll authored by me, philnita.
Thanks,
Phil

New poll for Gastric_Bypass

2006-09-20 15:33:53

Enter your vote today! A new poll has been created for the
Gastric_Bypass group:
To those who have had the surgery,
would you do it again?
o Yes, it is the greatest decision I made
o No way, it sucks
o Maybe, it is not all it is cracked up to be.
o I sued my doctor and wish him dead!
To vote, please visit the following web page:

Support Groups

2006-09-20 10:05:24

Oaky I am not from Alabama but I have had the surgery and I do know
that the support groups are very important .... Infact when I went
through the Bariatric Treatment Center here in Michigan I had to go
to at least two support group meetings as a qualification for
surgery. I did a search on the internet and these are the three web
sites I found so far. The third web sight was for a local paper but
I added the add that was in the paper for a support group
meeting .... however I do not know how close to you the meeting is.
Here is what I found:
http://www.obesityhelp.com/morbidobesity/mdcomments.php?N=k194
http://groups.msn.com/thenewyousupportgroup
http://www.postherald.com/me110702.shtml
BARIATRIC SUPPORT GROUP MEETING: 5:30 p.m., Baptist Montclair, Wall
Street Deli Conference Room located in Professional Office Building
860; free; 599-4926
I hope this information is of some use to you. Theis is the web
sight for where I had my surgery. http://www.bariatric.com/ If I
find out anything else I will let you know.
Steve
snewb@...

A New Guy

2006-09-19 23:15:06

I am new to the group and think it is wonderful that everyone seems
so supportive and helpful. In my brochure that the Doctors gave me
it said to join a support group and talk to other people...so here I
am. I have talked with a bunch of people in Alabama and they all
have their own opinions. Since I have made the decision to have the
Gastric Bypass it feels like a weight has been lifted off my
shoulders.(No pun intended at all) It is the best decision of my
life. I get those statements from people not thinking I am big
enough to have the surgery, I just smile and say thank you. I am
having my LGB on the 2nd of Dec. I was wondering if anyone knows of
any support groups near Montgomery, Alabama? Any help would be
appreciated. Thanks. JD(cwg32)

geriatric care

2006-09-19 12:24:44

the whole reason why im electing to have r-n-y is to live longer can
anyone tell me what are the statistics of life expectancy after
surgery do we have any elders in our group do they have special needs
because of age im talking 65 or older thanks all
hugs from biggmomz

QUESTION??

2006-09-19 09:53:46

TODAY I WAS SHAKING, DIZZY,SWEATING, MY HEART WAS BEATING FAST. I
HAD TO LAY DOWN FOR AN HOUR TO FEEL BETTER. I DID NOT THROW UP, OR
HAVE TO RUN GO TO THE BATHROOM. IS THAT THE DUMPING THING? I ATE
1/2 PANCAKE WITH BUTTER AND 1/2 tsp OF APPLE BUTTER. SKIM MILK ON
TOP TO MAKE IT MUSSY. ANDLUNCH I ATE 1 TSP. PEANUT BUTTER AND 1
TSP. OF CREAM CHEESE WITH CRAKERS FOR LUNCH. TO MUCH SUGAR?? WHAT
DO YOU THINK??

Interesting Link-Hunger Hormone

2006-09-19 00:28:59

Hi Everyone!
Check out this link. I found it while looking up information on
surgery candidates who have more than 200 lbs to lose. I found it
very interesting!
Tracy
http://www.va.gov/resdev/highlights/pr_05_22_02_hunger_hormone.cfm

first days/weeks at home post op

2006-09-18 20:56:05

I am new here, aand as alot of you have a million questions. My
surgery is in 3 weeks and with xmas comming my first week home, i am
curious how i will be feeling, I have has 2 c-sections and a
open fibroid surgery so i think i kinda know how i'll feel..any
advise??

Sugery in 1 Week....Help!!..

2006-09-18 18:36:05

My surgery is scheduled one week from today. I am very excited and
trying to get everything ready before I go. Not too long ago someone
posted a long (great list) of items to take to the hospital. I
thought I had printed it out. But sure enough when I was getting
items like big pillows and new nightgowns I could not find the list.
If anyone could help I would appreciate it!
Lisa

The fear of surgery

2006-09-18 10:37:47

Now that I've been approved and have a surgery date scheduled, the
fear is kicking in. There's a possibility that I could die from this
surgery. I know that the benefits outweigh the risks, but being only
24 yrs. old with 3 small children, I can't help but think of my
childrens future without their mother. I am scared to death that
something will go wrong in the operating room. Is this amount of
fear normal? And how can I get passed it before the surgery? I'm
afraid to discuss my fears with my husband for fear that he'll try to
talk me out of it. I've done all my research, joined all kinds of
supports groups, and really thought this through. I thought I was
mentally ready for this, but now all I keep thinking about is all the
complications that can arise. Any suggestions or words of
encouragment from others who've been through what I'm going through?
Thanks,
Angel

Happy Thanksgiving

2006-09-18 06:59:59

Today as we give thanks for all that we and our families have
received, lets remember to reflect on where many of us have come from
physically, and the dramatic improvement in our health due to weight
loss. For most people the decision to have surgery is not an easy
one, but one filled with doubt, fear, apprhension, and at the same
time excitement that finally there may be a tool out there that we
can use to permanently lose weight. Many of us had an angel or
someone who provided information, support, and reassurance that even
though we had some fear, we were making the right decision. One of
the best things you can do to give back during this season is to be a
blessing to someone else by adopting a pre-op patient and providing
encouragement and support. I would like to wish everyone a happy
and safe holiday from your friend at www.wlshelp.com
visit www.WLSHelp.com for information, advocacy, and
support.....Prepare to soar!

Metal Tongs? I know what they are

2006-09-17 21:23:09

I just didn't know what the reference to using them in the hospital
was all about.
Now, after reading some of the other responses, I get the picture -

Insurance Question ( Debra Massey )

2006-09-17 12:26:15

Debra -
I too am having terrible trouble getting my insurance to approve me.
I am covered by my insurance plan, but they are asking me for more
documentation, even though I sent them (via fed-ex) a large binder of
information that they originally requested. I think they are playing
mind games. It is totally upsetting me. I've been round-n-round
with them for about two months now. I can't get a surgery date lined
up until I'm approved. Yesterday, between my Primary Care doctor,
who is sick of writing letters on my behalf and my insurance company,
who wants more letters from my PCP, I was in tears. I am determined
to continue this battle. I will do everything I can to get this
approved and get a surgery date. I know this fight will be worth it,
but going through it has taken a lot of fighting.
Good luck.
Please keep my informed as to your insurance approval status.
Wendy

METAL THONG

2006-09-17 08:23:12

I HAD A HARD TIME WIPING MY SELF TOO. BUT I ASKED THE NURSE TO WIPE
ME, AND MY HUSBAND WHEN I GOT HOME. AND IF MY HUSBAND WAS NOT THERE
I GOT INTO THE SHOWERE, AND TOOK MY SHOWER MASSAGE OFF THE WALL AND
USED THAT TO CLEAN MY SELF. I HAVE NEVER HEARD OF TONGS. BUT A GOOD
IDEA IF NO ONE IS THERE. MOE

PAIN

2006-09-17 06:49:01

JENNIFER, THEY WILL GIVE YOU A MORPHINE PUMP AS LONG AS YOU NEED
IT. I NEEDED IT FOR 3 DAYS, THEN THEY GAVE ME LIQUID PERCOCET. I
USED PAIN MEDS UNTIL THE MIDDLE OF MY THIRD WEEK. I HURT ALOT. I
HAD THE OPEN RNY, AND THEY CUT THROUGH THE MUSLE OF YOUR STOMACH. I
AM 6 WEEKS POST OP TODAY. 47 POUNDS AND FEELING PRETTY GOOD. I HAVE
MY DAYS, BUT SO FAR OK. IT WAS HARDER THAN I THOUGHT. I CRYED ALOT,
BUT NOW I BETTER. JUST GIVE IT TIME. IT GETS BETTER EVERY DAY.
MOE

Pregnancy after surgery

2006-09-16 21:26:36

Has anyone been advised either way about getting pregnant or not
after the surgery? I am 31 and had heart complication with my last
pregnancy and my doctor has advised me not to get pregnant again
unless I loose at least 50 lbs. I currntly have sleap apnea,
cardiomyopothy, irratiable bowl syndrome, and am 5'5 and weigh 235.
I have been seeing a nutritionist for the last few months and none of
the diets or medications are working. It am really starting to think
that this surgery is my only option if I wan to be heathy and get
pregnant again. My parents were really against the idea in teh
begining, but they did their own resaerch and are now 100%
supportive. My husband says it is my decicsion, ans he will support
me either way. The doctor has said that a year after the surgery if
all goes well, and I am completly recovered I sould be able to get
pregnant. Does anyone have persone experince with this?
Ruth

Kristy Great Post!

2006-09-16 16:56:25

I am a newbie to this site and you should did answer alot of my
questions too. My surgery date is Jan 22, 2003. Lap/ RNY. I too am
trying to get as much insite as to the things to deal with the days
after surgery. Especially the puree diet and the pain in the
hospitol. Iam the biggest weeny when it comes to pain.

Has anyone has problems?

2006-09-16 16:33:21

Or been readmitted after their discharge?

Getting ready

2006-09-16 07:48:54

My surgery is scheduled for December 30. I'm getting nervous about
insurance approval, and the surgery itself. The date has been set
for a couple of months now, but I'm getting scared as it approaches.
I know I'm making the right choice, but it feels weird doing nothing
while waiting for the surgery. I treating every meal as my "last
meal" and have probably gained ten pounds since the date was set.
Does anyone have any suggestions for getting ready?

Gold reaction

2006-09-16 04:17:48

Hello everyone, I was wondering if any of you have ever had reactions to gold, and if you know what it means. My finger is turning black under my wedding ring. Also, if I take my wedding ring, and drag it across my face, it makes a big black line. My friend said she thinks it means I'm iron deficant, but someone else said they didn't think that is what it means. Has anyone else had this? (Try it, drag a gold ring across your face) I'm interested who else has this

Thanks
Kami

Lap RNY 10/21/02

new and ready

2006-09-15 14:54:18

Ok I have been watching the posts on this group for about a week.
Heres what I have ready so far,
i know my insurance covers the procedure ,im pretty sure that when I
see my PCP on dec 6th that she will approve it and I fond a real good
surgeon..
I guess that if I had to ask any questions my one question would be ..
Is there anyone in this group who had the procedure done and regrets
having done?
Allan

ALLAN

2006-09-15 14:53:46

AT FIRST YOU WILL REGREET IT. YOU WILL SAY TO YOURSELF WHY DID IT DO
THIS. I CAN'T EAT. MY BODY IS CHANGED FOREVER. YOUR IN PAIN. BUT
AFTER A WHILE YOU WILL START FEELING BETTER. AND EATING MORE.
GETTING IN A DAILY ROUNTINE. IT IS VERY VERY HARD. I HAD THE OPEN
RNY. IT TOOK ME 6 WEEKS TO FEEL OK. EVERYONE IF DIFFERENT. SOME
PEOPLE HAD NO PROBLEM RIGHT OFF THE BAT. I AM 6 WEEKS TODAY. I
DON'T HAVE A SCALE, BUT I THINK I HAVE LOST ABOUT 45 POUNDS. EATING
BETTER. FEELING BETTER. I AM GOING BACK TO WORK TODAY PART TIME. I
HAVE STARTED WALKING IN THE LAST 2 WEEKS. GETTING OUT MORE. EVEN
WENT TO DINNER OUT WITH MY HUSBAND. IT IS A BIG BIG DEAL. DO YOUR
HOMEWORK. READ ALL ABOUT IT. ASK A LOT OF QUESTIONS. FEELING GOOD
IN NEW MEXICO. MOE

Miami/11Mo. post-op whould like a buddy:also post-op

2006-09-15 06:40:12

Lets talk
art2d24m@...

new member

2006-09-14 18:26:35

id like to join the groups
IM 11 mo post-op
teri

Weird Question

2006-09-14 16:26:39

Dear Group
Please excuse the cross-post. I'm on several weight loss surgery
(WLS) lists and would appreciate advice either on list or directly to
me at flamingofl@...
Here's my story: My primary care physician suggested that I
consider
WLS in June 200 and again in June 2002. I am 5'7" tall,
haven't a
clue about my BMI. I've weighed over 300 pounds for at least 15
years, 250+ my entire adult life (I'm 50). This summer I was
400
pounds, borderline diabetic with symptoms of congestive heart
failure which turned out to be asthma.
In June I started water aerobic work outs and following a low
glycemic index eating plan. With the addition of the latest asthma
med Singulair I've been losing weight fairly rapidly
.20 pounds
in the last month. I'm now 348. Yes, I've lost 50 pounds in
6
months.
My history with diet and exercise parallels everything that other
members of this group have experienced. Lost it, gained it back. A
couple of times 70+ pounds
I fully expect to plateau at some point. And this current weight
loss is just dumb luck.
I've got 200 pounds to lose before hitting an ideal weight range.
Logically, I'll be in better shape for surgery if I can lose and
tone
as much as I can on my own before getting WLS.
My employer is switching from United Health Care insurance to Cigna
as of June 1.
I'm scheduled to have my initial consultation with my surgeon on
WEDNESDAY 11/27. Because of my health issues this summer, I've
already had all of the cardiac and pulmonary tests. I plan to
postpone the procedure, if approved, until I do plateau. I am hoping
for a May surgery date, given the planned insurance switch at work.
My question is: should I postpone my 11/27 appointment? What are my
chances of getting insurance authorization/keeping insurance
authorization if I lose 20-50 pounds after this consultation????
Thank you for your recommendations!
mingo

LAP BAND, i am on the list and scared...

2006-09-14 13:43:54

would love to chat directly with anyone!
Christa 31 female married 2 kids

Diabities

2006-09-14 04:47:00

My wife Eileen is thinking about having the bypass done. She has
dibities and was wondering how it would effect her. Both her primary
care Dr and the nuerologist is oppose to it. It would seem she would
have more complications. She has called a area hospital and found 2
Drs.
that do the surgy,but has not made a connection yet. The neurolgsist
told her to see an endocrinlogist to see what they think.
Does anyone on this list has dibities and have had the bypass done can
tell us how its going.
Thanks
Charles & Eileen

Did anyone else.....

2006-09-14 00:07:21

Feel guilty about having this surgery? I have been to a few of the
monthly group meeting at the hospital that I am having this done at
meetings now and it never fails that someone asks how long
ago I had the surgery. Along with my family telling me that I dont
need the surgery, I am starting to feel like maybe its a bit selfish
for me to do so. I weigh 350 pounds and eventhough I dont look like
I am dangerously overweight, I know that I am. My diabetes and high
blood pressure are testament to that. I have not been approved yet,
but I feel that I will be very soon, but I honestly may pass on the
surgery because I feel like I am being very selfish in my decision to
have this done.
Anyway, enough of my babbling. I was just wondering if anyone had
any similar feelings about having this done.
Thanks,
Steve

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2006-09-13 17:57:33

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HELP ME

2006-09-13 09:26:47

I am very new to all of this. I could use some help on how to get
started. I am from PA and if anyone from PA has had this done if you
could please e-mail me and maybe you could help me out with some
places and where to get started.
cntryboy130@...
Thank You
Shawn

Help if you can

2006-09-13 09:05:12

Hi, my name is Amanda and I am trying very hard to help my sister
get Intestinal Gastric Bypass Surgery. If anyone would like to
help, please visit the website I created for her at
www.helpmysister.com
If you could spread the word by sending the weblink on to friends it
would be greatly appreciated.
Sincerely,
Amanda
Sister to Heather

Congratulations, Angel

2006-09-12 17:53:58

I had no problem with my insurance either - didn't even have to call
them or send them a letter. My Dr. contacted them, and three weeks
later my Dr. called and told me I was approved and we could set a
date for surgery :-)
I had it done on Sept. 10th - down 45 pounds as of last weekend, and
I feel better then I have in years. My diabetes numbers have gone
down from about 350 to 110/120 and I've been able to stop my
medication :-)
Also..........NO MORE ACID REFLUX, no more pills for that either
:-)
All the best of luck and well wishes to you.

I've been approved!

2006-09-12 17:42:12

I am so happy right now. I've been approved for surgery. It took
less than a month and only one letter to the insurance company. I
couldn't ask for a better insurance company.
Angel
24 yrs. 5'5 280 lbs.
BMI 45

newbie too!

2006-09-12 07:26:33

Hi I am Linda from Pittsburgh,pa (any others?) I have started the
procedures for a lap/rny. I am Mom to 3 and wie to a wonderful
supportive hubby. I am in the insurance approval stage..they told me
100% covered. Then surgeon rep called yesterday and said they said
No! Ugh! So I called them back..it is a pre-approval thing..I need to
meet the criteria of morbid obese...which of course I do...paperwork
needs sent etc...I think the surgeon office wants an instant yes over
the phone and not have to do paperwork ahead..I am willing to do
whatever it takes...I have been researching for a year, what is a few
more months...I will be patient even though I am the type of person
that WANTS WHAT I WANT NOW!...ok thats me with lots more to tell..I
need a web site...you all have made me feel welcome just by reading
all of the posts..I am glad I found this list. Linda

hello! LAP BAND, on the list....

2006-09-12 02:43:15

i haven't had it done yet, but i am on the list. i want to know if
any one in here has had it done? i have found nothing about this
type of gastric procedure other than it is less intrussive and
popular amoungst the celebrities.
i am in sacramento, and i am taking Pacific Care insurance starting
jan 1st.
i hope that i can make a pal or more!
Christa

Fort Worth

2006-09-11 23:47:49

Howdy! We just join this list and are begining to do some research and
hope if anyone on this list is from Fort Worth or Arlington,TX. We
would like to find a DR in Fort Worth or Arlington because we don't
want to do the drive to Dallas or Garland.
Thanks
Charles and Eileen

New to group

2006-09-11 17:29:09

Hi! I'm new to this group and am searching for input
on gastric bypass surgery.
I am especially interested in open as opposed to
laparascopic, the surgery itself (which scares me more
than anything), the required lifestyle changes and
whether or not I have any hope of getting HMO Illinois
to cover this!
I'm sure you have all seen these questions a million
times--but I feel like I have hit rock bottom here and
would very much like to start living my life without
being 350+.
Any input is very much appreciated.
Pier

question

2006-09-11 10:25:36

In a message dated 11/19/2002 10:28:02 PM Mountain Standard Time, cdt9113@... writes:

Bileo Pancreatic diversion
what is this?

New here too!

2006-09-11 01:01:59

At what point did you decide that this surgery was the option for
you? I don't feel that I am at that point yet. My dr. suggested
that it is an option at my visit last month. I immediately told her
no way. Which I think that is a fairly common reaction at first.
However I have done some reading on the net but can't say I have
reserched it in depth. Of course that is something I would do before
consulting my dr. even further.
I guess my question is when do you reach the point that dieting &
exercise alone just aren't working? I know I need to exercise & diet
faithfully which honestly I'm not doing.
Ann

Discouraged...........NO MORE!!!!

2006-09-10 21:23:58

I'm so happy!! Thank you everyone for your words of encouragement, and great ideas. Having this support is so wonderful...... What is even more fun is to share good news. I weighed in today, and I have lost...........ELEVEN pounds since last Tuesday!!!! I'm so excited!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Kami

Kami Clark <kamic_77@...

Hello everyone, Im feeling discouraged right now. Im 4 weeks post-op today. I lost 21 lbs in the first 2 weeks, in that last 2 weeks I have only lost 1 pound! Im wondering if my doctor even did the surgery right. Im hungry a lot. I have been since the day I got home from the hospital. If I let myself, I can eat more than 2 oz of food. I have never thrown up, and I can eat carbs and sugar without dumping. Dont get me wrong, I have only had a few bites of carbs in the last month, as well as only sugar 1 or 2 times. I really feel like this is not going to work for me. I dont know what to do. Im following all my doctors rules, Im getting 64oz of water (crystal light) every day. Im only eating protein (99% of the time) Let me tell you what I ate today. For breakfast, I had about 3oz of yogurt. For lunch, I had about 1 1/2oz of tuna fish, and a hard-boiled egg, mixed with a little Miracle whip. Then for dinner, we got a deep-dish pizza, and I ate the meat, cheese and sauce.
(Ok, I had ONE bite of the crust!) Then, later, as a snack of about 3oz of s/f jello. I started exercising about 2 weeks ago, and Ive been doing about 45 min 3-5 times a week. What am I doing wrong? I want so bad to be one of the success stories, where I lost 100lbs in 6 months, or something like that. What if I dont loose? Would it be possible to not lose weight?? Help me!!
Kami
Surgery 10/21/02
262/240

Hi

2006-09-10 19:49:16

can some one tell me how to begin the process to get the surgery
done, what doctors to see, etc?
Nanette

Insurance Question

2006-09-10 16:03:46

Hello All:
I am new to this site. I've reached the end of my rope with
insurance companies. I am a 36 year old female with Blue Cross PPO of
Florida. I am 5'2 271 pounds with a BMI of 51. I have seen a
physcian regarding Gas. By. I started the insurance process. They
needed all med. records. I am relatively "healthy" if you can call
it that. I do not have high blood pressure but am a borderline
diabetic. I have never gone to the Dr.'s unless it was a medical
emergency and therefore, other than an OBGYN I saw occasionally
through the years, I don't have a primary care physician. Blue Cross
wanted more bloodwork and thyroid tests....did that. Blue Cross
wanted a psych evaluation...did that. Blue Cross wanted a history of
weight loss attempts....did that (Metabolic, Dr. Atkins, Weight
Watchers, etc..even 8 months of paying a private RN to oversee my
diet.) My claim for surgery has been denied 4 times now. The
insurance company finally reviewed it the last time and picked the
ONLY thing I can't provide them with and that's 12 consecutive months
of PHYSICIAN supervised weightloss attempt.
HELP!
Any suggestions?
Debra Massey
Ocala, FL
Dr. Hocking/Gainsville

Need Advice

2006-09-10 03:04:04

Hi, I had surgery on the 21st of Oct. and am on the second stage of
my food intake, I am not hungry but am having a hard time not being
able to eat. I do have cravings for some kind of food substance. I
can't seem to follow the menu the doctor gave me. I don't care for
most of the items on it and I am really getting tired of broth and
instant mashed potatoes.
I am not sorry I did the surgery but its alot harder than I imagined
and am scared of doing something stupid. Does anyone have any
advice for me?

(No subject)

2006-09-10 02:40:07

I AM 5 WEEKS POST OP. I HAVE LOST 40 POUNDS. AND I EAT AS MUCH AS
YOU DO. MOE

(No subject)

2006-09-09 14:19:54

I DON'T HAVE A SCALE. I DON'T WANT ONE FOR THAT REASON. HANG IN
THERE YOU WILL LOSE THE WEIGHT. MOE

Discouraged

2006-09-09 08:58:18

Hello everyone, Im feeling discouraged right now. Im 4 weeks post-op today. I lost 21 lbs in the first 2 weeks, in that last 2 weeks I have only lost 1 pound! Im wondering if my doctor even did the surgery right. Im hungry a lot. I have been since the day I got home from the hospital. If I let myself, I can eat more than 2 oz of food. I have never thrown up, and I can eat carbs and sugar without dumping. Dont get me wrong, I have only had a few bites of carbs in the last month, as well as only sugar 1 or 2 times. I really feel like this is not going to work for me. I dont know what to do. Im following all my doctors rules, Im getting 64oz of water (crystal light) every day. Im only eating protein (99% of the time) Let me tell you what I ate today. For breakfast, I had about 3oz of yogurt. For lunch, I had about 1 1/2oz of tuna fish, and a hard-boiled egg, mixed with a little Miracle whip. Then for dinner, we got a deep-dish pizza, and I ate the meat, cheese and sauce. (Ok, I
had ONE bite of the crust!) Then, later, as a snack of about 3oz of s/f jello. I started exercising about 2 weeks ago, and Ive been doing about 45 min 3-5 times a week. What am I doing wrong? I want so bad to be one of the success stories, where I lost 100lbs in 6 months, or something like that. What if I dont loose? Would it be possible to not lose weight?? Help me!!
Kami

Surgery 10/21/02
262/240

web sites

2006-09-09 03:04:16

Im looking for a good web site that explains the procedure,the risks
and the benafits..
Allan

Im new here

2006-09-09 01:01:32

Well Im new and basically ill bet you have heard all the questions
and are getting tired of answering them.
My question is
Is 40 years old to late?
Allan

How about medicare?

2006-09-08 18:54:10

Well, I have finally gottten through the red tape of the doctors to
get the surgery. Now I need financing. I am on medicar and they are
just not sure they want to fund this proceedure. Any advice on how
to navigatre the system or are there organizations out there to help
peole like me? I just can't wait to be half the man I use to be!

HI

2006-09-08 13:23:33

I am Nanette,
33,
Wife to Mike for 11 years,
Mother to Mallary for 6 years.
Overweight for 11 years.
I have asthma and transverse myelitis,
I need to lose weight,
and fast.
i have tried every diet,
and exercised until i got ill.
I think gastric bypass would be for me,
but I have no clue where to start,
can you help me?
Nanette

New To The Group

2006-09-08 08:02:02

Hello to all -
I was seeking to have the Lap Band surgery but was denied by my
insurance company. They did say that they will cover the Bypass
surgery. I am waiting for a new letter from my surgeon (Dr. Michael
Schweitzer) recommending the surgery and a letter from my Primary
Care doctor supporting the surgery. I'll fax them off and hopefully
will get approved soon. The company that does the medical review for
my insurance is a real pain. The woman is really difficult and non-
descriptive in the information that she wants. I think it is a power
thing with her. She knows that she is holding on to something that I
want very badly and thinks it's cute to dangle it in front of me. For
now, I'm sucking up to her but when I'm done my insurance company is
really going to hear it from me as to why they need to change the
firm that does their medical reviews. I wish my insurance company
would have been straight-forward w/ me in stating that they never
would approve Lap-Band. It would have saved me a lot of money, time,
and aggravation. I do know that all that I'm going through now will
be worth all the trouble once I have the operation.
Wendy

Where do you start

2006-09-07 23:30:08

I have considered this surgery for some time now and still don't
know where to start...I know that insurance can cover this, but
again not sure where to start. Can someone out there help me in the
Charlotte, Nc area? I really want to live to see my children grow
up and have children. I have a long series of family health
problems that could kill me before 40! I am very serious about
this, I just dont want to waste time by reading stuff that is not
going to help me with understanding the surgery. I have even read
about mini bypass surgery, is that as good?
Thanks,
Fighting to be Fit in Charlotte

Hi-Dazed and Confused

2006-09-07 19:19:01

Hi my name is Dianamarie and I had surgery 10/14/02. It has been a
month and I haven't seen the dr. since I've been released but I do
have an appointment Tuesday. I seem to be kind of depressed but I
was that way going in. I don't know what to eat, how to eat, how
much I can eat and feel that I am the only one in the world who
didn't have laproscopic surgery. I also feel that if this surgery
could fail, I will be the one it won't work on. I was born fat and
have always been and feel that maybe it is my destiny. I also feel
kind of weak and don't know if thats normal. If anybody out there
can help, please respond-I truly am confused and figure maybe I just
need support from people who understand. Thanks

Help what do i do.

2006-09-07 16:16:29

I have a slight problem and don't know what to do. I have contacted
a bariatric surgeon and begun the prelimary paper work for him. I
have a very supportive PCP that know that I have tried all that I
could do. The fact that I am 5'3 and 303lbs with a bmi of 53 has her
concerned and agrees that it is time for major steps. The problem
is ...She is leaving her group/practice in a month!!! I don't know
what I am going to do? I am at a lose of what to do? Do I have to
start all over with a new doctor before I can go forward with WLS?
Any suggestions?
Thanks for your help,
Aleeta

New member looking for insurance help

2006-09-06 23:47:55

I recently changed my insurance plan to Cigna AZ Healthcare (HMO)
because I called them and asked specifically if they covered gastric
bypass surgery and they said if it it was medically necessary. Now,
before I choose a primary doctor, I am going to ask all of you if
anyone in the AZ area has a Cigna Dr. who is compassionate with obese
patients? So many Drs seem to think that obesity is a choice, that we
can choose to be thin and then we are thin, or choose to be fat and
so we are fat.
My problem is genetic for the most part, my parents, my brother, and
many in my family have been obese. My father died pematurely of a
heart attack, my brother has diabetes and I have a number of health
problems from sleeping disorders to stomach problems, joint pain,
shortness of breath and migraines.
I am more than 100 lbs obese. I live in the Phoenix area. Has anyone
out there been approved with this insurance plan, and what Drs did
you use?
Thanks for help.

Newbie

2006-09-06 22:44:28

Hi my name is Heather and im starting the process to be approved for
surgery, heres what im scared of I have to get my pcp to approve or
rather refer me, i went to her a year ago and she wanted me to try
other opyions. These are the options that havent been working so i
being so embrassed to ask left crying. Started weight watchers
continued working out sometimes compulsively crash diets etc etc. Im
5'8 282 BMI 43 i currently have no health issues other then back and
ankle pain, I carry the weight "well" oh brother!!! Family history is
horrible obesity (horrible word), diabetes, heart disease,
respiratory disease. Im heading down a scary path and im trying to
head this off!!! Please help with any ideas on how to speak to my
pcp. she is the one that will make or break this.

Bathing

2006-09-06 22:43:15

I am one week post-op and have been showering regurlarly. My Doctor
said not to worry about the bandages as they are waterproof.
However, I am not sure about taking a bath.
Does anyone have any info about taking a bath with some of the
bandages still on?
Thanks

another question

2006-09-06 07:18:26

Were most of you doing a documented diet (Weight Watchers, TOPS, etc) prior to surgery? Did your insurance require going to one of these types of organizations to have your weight loss documented prior to surgery? Thanks!
Beth

Hello Everyone !!!

2006-09-06 06:09:00

Hello It's Teresa from Indiana,
I had my surgery on Oct.25,2002 and I
am now 3weeks post-op and have lost 50lb. I had some Problems but
they are fine now,I had a leak and it had to heal. Other then that
I'm eating fine and doing good. I wish I had a way of putting
Pitchers up,but I don't I've went from a size 12 in rings to a 10 1/2
since my surgery. I love being able to wear the close I did before
and they are baggy on me. God Bless you all and thank you for your
prayers. Your Friend Teresa.

Christine's Story

2006-09-05 22:21:26

This was sent to my website by one of the members. she asked me to
share so that others might be inspired.
Hello, my name is Christine, I am 24 and this is my story:
I have always been the "big boned" girl all my life. I never ate
chips and dip and did not drink gallons of Mt. Dew like all my thin
friends. I tried Weight Watchers, Adkins and on and on. Nothing
worked. I was dangerously depressed and had suicidal thoughts on a
very occasional basis.
I read Carnie Wilson's story in People Magazine and knew right away
that this surgery was for me. I did a lot of researching and wasted
no time setting a date for surgury. I weighed 285 lbs at that time
and my surgery date was scheduled for Nov. 28, 2001, the best and the
first day of the rest of my life. I was so embarrassed that I had to
have this surgery that I lied to my place of work. I still have not
told any of them the truth; most of my family members do not know I
had the surgery. I just wasn't ready to deal with the negative
feedback I would get, and was unable to deal with the embarrassment
until now.
I had my surgery as scheduled and everything went perfect. I started
almost a year ago at 285 lbs; I now weigh around 140 lbs at 11 months
post-op. I have lost 145 pounds in less than a year. This surgery
saved my life. I started weight lifting and exercising about 6 months
ago, it has really helped, especially firming up. I feel great. I can
shave, cross my legs, hold my kids and play with them. I never
imagined life could be this great. I thank Carnie for sharing her
story as it saved my life. To see more pictures and read more about
me please visit my web site: http://pennylane234.tripod.com
visit www.WLSHelp.com for information, advocacy, and
support.....Prepare to soar!

SERIOUS question...for most PPl anyway

2006-09-05 20:32:46

For the first time this morning I noticed a problem like everyone
else has....I AM LOSING MY HAIR!!!! I was having hair lose before,
but not like this...I could swear after I got done taking a shower
and brushing it, I had enough to make a wig for my husband, but don't
tell him that...he wouldn't like it much...lol
My question is...how much do you actually lose? Do you go totally
bald? All my life I have been use to very thick curly hair and the
thought of losing it or a lot of it, is scary. I hope someone can
shed some light on this for me.
Thanks Alot,
Denise
August 6, 2002
410/307/would love to get below 300 at this point, then go from there

BC/CS PPO Insurance

2006-09-05 14:10:55

Has anyone had any problems getting approved with BC/BS PPO? I weigh
270 and I am 5'4. My BMI is 46.3. I have my consult with the
surgeon tomorrow and I hope I get approved but I hate to say I dont
want to wait a month to be approved. Please help!!
Michele

(No subject)

2006-09-05 06:35:53

4 weeks yesterday, and i have lost 35 pounds. moe

SO MANY QUESTIONS!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-04 23:45:10

Hi my name is Marisa and i am inquiring about gastric bypass
surgery. I amd currently 236lbs and 5'6. I don't even knowe where
to begin my research. What is the best procedure? Where can I find
a doctor? What are the chances of complications or even death? Also
I am not sure if i am doing this for vanity purposes. As far as i
know the only thing that being obese has done is effect my whole
life, mentally. I think about my weight constantly and won't even go
out with my friends because I fear being made fun of. I hope someone
here can steer me in the right direction. Your help is greatly
appreciated!

removing the stigma through education

2006-09-04 20:00:13

It is my desire to educate people about obesity, and more importantly
let more of the 15 million Americans who suffer from it, know there
is a cure. That involves not only removing the stigma of obesity but
also the stigma of weight loss surgery as being some easy way out.
It is nothing more than a medical fix for a medical problem, no
different than someone with blocked arteries from years of smoking
going in a hospital and getting angioplasty so they won't drop dead
one day. It gives them a new chance at life, and no one ever
criticizes them for taking the easy way out. Yet when the obese seek
a medical cure, the same people who bothered them about their weight,
also down them for taking advantage of the best treatment. We all
must do our part to not only educate the obese but also the thin who
have no idea what our quality of life is like. Anyone who has had
surgery and speaks out openly and proud I think advances the cause
furhter.
visit www.wlshelp.com for informatin, advocay, and support....Prepare
to soar!

Just starting

2006-09-04 07:57:22

Hi all, I have just decided to begin the process of qualifying for
the Laparoscopic Bariatric Surgery. I have done a lot of research on
the surgery and have been reading everyones messages for some time
now. Any information you all can give me would be greatly
appreciated. I'm located in Central Florida and I'm not exactly sure
how to check out my doctors credentials? Congrats all to have had
this done and hopefully some day I can be one of them up there too.
Thanks, Tracey

Check out eDiets News

2006-09-04 00:53:57

This is a really important article. Maybe we can help this poor young man.
Click here: eDiets News
Cheers,
Eileen

Insurance Question - Medicaid

2006-09-04 00:10:18

Thanks Everyone for Putting up with my question...
I was just curious, how easy is it to get medicaid for a single 19
year old female, with VERY low income? Is it possible? I've been to
the site, and I'm kinda not sure if they would accept me or not... I
see pregnant females as being accepted, but not single females
without children...it's so confusing...
Also, can anyone share experiences of coverage problems with medicaid
for this surgery? Do they have special guidelines or are they the
normal approval guidelines for this surgery?
Thanks Everyone for Help!
Amy

New to this group!

2006-09-03 15:07:15

Hi! My name is Melissa and I have been researching WLS. I joined the
Bandsters group to get an idea of what that is about too. I have
gotten a lot of their opinions and I have heard good and bad both
about RNY and the band. I was hoping to listen in with this group and
see how the RNY experience goes. My insurance covers both proceedures
but I can't seem to make up my mind which would be better for me.
Just when I thought the band would be better for me, I found out
there are no docs doing the band that my insurance covers. Then a doc
that I had seen in the past told me that banding did not have the
long term effect that RNY does and then I heard the opposite from
someone else. So, I'm confused, but trying to get a grip! If anyone
wants to share their experience, please feel free to email me.
Thanks!
Melissa
BMI=55

Insurance Question - New to Group :-)

2006-09-03 11:31:13

Hello,
I've been considering Gastric Bypass a long time now, I live in
western ky (currently). I have a problem though, I am so confused
with insurance, and do they always make you wait a year for surgery
after signing up? And what's the best insurance to go with? Also what
plan? I don't have alot of money, would any free insurance companies
cover this? Would the special care plans cover this? I am so lost,
I've never had to deal with insurance before, just seeing if anyone
can help :-)
Thanks!
Amy

(No subject)

2006-09-03 09:16:38

SHELLZDREAM, I NEED CHICKEN BROTH, DIET JELLO, DIET POPSICE'S, I
DRANK WARM TEA, AND ICE WATER. THEN I STARTED DRINKING INSTANT
BREAKFAST WITH SOY MILK. I DON'T DRINK MILK. IF YOU CAN BUY THE
SKIM MILK.. CANNED SOUP, LOTS OF YOUGART AND COTTAGE CHEESE AFTER A
COUPLE OF WEEKS. I HAD THE OPEN RNY. CREAMED SOUP. THEN AFTER
ABOUT 3 1/2 WEEKS I STARTED EATING REFRIED PINTO BEANS WITH CHEESE IN
THEM AND CHOPPED HAM. TUNA SALAD ALMOST BLENDED WITH LOW FAT MAYO,
BOILED EGG AND PICKLES. I TRYED SCRAMBLED EGGS, BUT IT DID NOT SET
GOOD WITH ME. I NEED SOMEKIND OF CHAIR IN THE SHOWER,SO I COULD SIT
DOWN AND TAKE A SHOWER. A BACK SCRATCHER, AND A CORD LESS PHONE. I
SLEPTED IN MY RECLINER FOR ABOUT 2 1/2 WEEKS. IT IS REALLY HARD TO
LAY IN BED. MY SKIN DRYED OUT SO MAKE SURE YOU HAVE SOME LOTION ON
HAND AND USE IT EVERYDAY. I DRINK A LOT OF WARM TEA NOW. NOT HOT
JUST WARM. IT HELPS IN THE MORNING GET YOUR STOMACH READY FOR THE
DAY. I AM 4 WEEKS OUT TOMORROW. IT WAS HELL FOR THE FIRST 3 WEEKS.
BUT IT WILL GET BETTER. I KNOW YOU WILL HAVE DOUGHT, BUT IT WILL GET
BETTER. I TOOK PAIN MEDS UNTIL MY 3 WEEK. I AM STILL VERY SORE, BUT
NOT IN ANY MAJOR PAIN. SOMEONE TOLD ME THEY ATE A PRUNE A DAY TO
HELP YOUR BOWELS. SO FAR I HAVE NOT NEED THAT. AND I HAVE LIQUID
CHILDREN;S PAIN RELIVER. THAT IS EASY ON THE STOMACH. AFTER YOU
DONE WITH YOUR BIG PAIN MEDS. I HAD A FEW HEADACHE'S TOO. HANG IN
THERE. MOE

(no subject)

2006-09-02 22:19:16

Hello everyone,
I got my date last week. Just had a few questions on what i may need
to stock up on at home food wise? Just want to be prepared so i dont
have to do to much running around as i live in the middle of no where
and dont get to town to often...
Little about me im 31 years old Weight 294 all time high
128 is altime low i like that number much better.
Thanks for taking the time to read this
Shell
Congrats on your surgery date Shell, mine is Jan-22 and i can't wait to have it and begin a new life.
I wish you good luck..........Marc

New Memeber Surgery Date Nov 22 2002

2006-09-02 17:32:25

Hello everyone,
I got my date last week. Just had a few questions on what i may need
to stock up on at home food wise? Just want to be prepared so i dont
have to do to much running around as i live in the middle of no where
and dont get to town to often...
Little about me im 31 years old Weight 294 all time high
128 is altime low i like that number much better.
Thanks for taking the time to read this
Shell

100 pounds gone update

2006-09-02 07:48:39

My new 100 pound gone pictures and update are on my site if you want to go and see!!! I finally did it!

Julie

To learn more about weight loss surgery, see my success pictures, and learn more about me feel free to visit http://www.geocities.com/billnjulie2001

My Sister and WLS

2006-09-02 06:04:10

Ok Folks

My sister is extremely obese. After my surgery she was asking me how I felt if I was ok and other questions. But never wanted to here about the surgery. Well this weekend I guess it sunk in that she has to do something. She ask me if I would help her find out if her insurance covered the surgery and find a doc for her. I was so happy that is my oldest and only sister, and I have been extremely worried about her. She has diabeties, high blood presure, her body hurts all the time and she has had to hernia operations. and now they are running test to she if she has any heart issue. Her Ins is Health Net so if any one has any comments on them please let me know what I am going to be up against. Thanks

Rosa In NJ
Surgery 2-7-02
5 ft 5in BMI 46 (288/165 ) Lost 122lbs
Surgeron: Dr. John H. Holup/Pascack Valley
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Girl enjoys lighter side of life after operation

2006-09-01 23:39:45

Folks I have added a link with the article from The Register Guard. If you visit the article you can see a picture of Kimberly

News Article

www.registerguard.com | © The Register-Guard, Eugene, Oregon

November 2, 2002

Girl enjoys lighter side of life after operation
EDITOR'S NOTE: Last February, Kimberly Duncan underwent gastric bypass surgery in a drastic effort to help her lose the weight that was threatening her health. She was among the youngest people to ever get the operation. The Register-Guard told Kimberly's story last March. Today, we tell you how she's doing.

By TIM CHRISTIE

The Register-Guard

Kimberly Duncan isn't the girl she was last winter.

Back then, at age 12, she weighed 325 pounds. She was painfully shy and ridiculed by schoolmates. She suffered from sleep apnea and high blood pressure and was borderline diabetic.

Now, eight months after surgery to shrink her stomach to the size of a golf ball, Kimberly has lost 140 pounds. Her obesity-related ailments have disappeared. She has boundless energy, wears makeup, flirts with boys and has become downright sassy.

"I don't get any guff from anybody," Kimberly, now 13, said this week at her Bethel area home. "I give the guff."
Kimberly Duncan, 13, laughs as she holds a skirt she wore when she weighed 325 pounds last winter. After undergoing gastric bypass surgery eight months ago, Duncan has lost 140 pounds.

Last February's gastric bypass surgery has produced dramatic changes in the young girl's life."She's much more of a typical teen-ager now," said her mother, Monica Keene. "I'm glad she's got some spunk to her. Sometimes it's a little bit much. She's gone all the time."

"So?" Kimberly interjected.

In fact, Kimberly disclosed that she's been grounded twice in the past month for talking back to her parents. After taking a year off from school, she's had mixed results in her studies at Cascade Middle School: Kimberly said she got two As, a C, a D and an F on her most recent report card.

She's figuring out how much she can eat and drink without throwing up, a common problem with people who undergo gastric bypass surgery.

Overall, she feels good. She said she rarely watches television because she's so busy.

Before her surgery, she said, "I never wanted to get off the couch. I wanted to keep the curtains closed so no one would see me from the street. I never wanted to leave the house."

And now? "The highlight of my day is leaving the house."

"I can walk around the mall and hang around with my friends and not worry people are staring at me because of my weight," she said.

Her surgeon, Dr. Kenneth Welker of Eugene, had never done a gastric bypass on a patient as young as Kimberly, and he said he's pleased with how she's doing.

"She's certainly had a profound weight loss," he said. "The one thing we noticed the last time she was in the office was the psycho-social change was so obvious.

"Prior to surgery, she wouldn't look you in the eyes and there was a shame. In her last visit to the office, there was eye contact, there was engagement, there was spontaneous conversation, this sort of excitement."

Lab tests show Kimberly isn't malnourished, which means she's doing a good job in choosing foods that have "nutritional density," he said. Kimberly and her mother said she eats a lot of salad, a few bites of meat and drinks lots of water. She eats small snacks throughout the day. She takes vitamins and gets a monthly vitamin B-12 shot.

As Kimberly's weight loss slows down and stabilizes, Welker said, he'll try to change her focus from weight loss to how it makes her feel: Being able to fit into smaller clothes, going to a restaurant and sitting behind a table, running around at the park. "We'll start asking her how she's doing with those activities, to reinforce not so much the exact poundage as the fact that she feels so much better," he said. "The last thing we want to do is continue to encourage so much weight loss we could end up with an eating disorder."

Welker said he likes to see his patients lose 75 percent to 80 percent of their excess weight, rather than 100 percent.

"To be at 100 percent excess body weight loss means they're losing lean body mass we don't want them to lose," he said.

Kimberly, he said, "is right on track." In three to four months, when she loses a little more weight, she will have plastic surgery to move folds of excess skin, which will take another 10 to 15 pounds off. In a five-hour surgery at Sacred Heart Medical Center, Welker stapled her stomach down to a 1-ounce pouch and bypassed a stretch of her intestines.

It's estimated some 90,000 Americans will undergo similar surgeries this year, though few are as young as Kimberly.

The surgery does several things to force weight loss: It makes it physically impossible to eat more than a few bitefuls of food at a time. It bypasses a part of the intestines that would be absorbing fats and nutrients. And when the new, small stomach gets stretched out, that signals the brain that it's full, which cranks up the body's metabolism to burn fat.

Kimberly's parents are delighted with the change in their daughter, but the surgery - which cost about $31,000 - has placed an enormous burden on the family finances. Kimberly's stepfather, Russell Keene, has health insurance through his job at Western Pneumatics, but the insurer, Eugene-based Pacific Source, wouldn't cover the operation.

So the Keenes paid cash, cashed in Russell's 401(k) and borrowed money from Kimberly's grandfather. Still, they've struggled to pay their bills. Monica's car was repossessed, and they've been threatened with foreclosure on their house.

But Monica said she has no second thoughts about going in debt to pay for the surgery that transformed her daughter's life. "My heart swells. I feel nothing but joy and excitement for her," she said. "It's worth it. It's worth anything. We'll get through it. We'll get by."
Rosa In NJ
Surgery 2-7-02
5 ft 5in BMI 46 (288/165 ) Lost 122lbs
Surgeron: Dr. John H. Holup/Pascack Valley
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food poisioning

2006-09-01 16:54:44

Well folks yesterday I developed a mild case of food posioning. It was a very painful experience. I am back on liquids for the next couple of days. wow! After 10 months back on liquids... I will never eat at the cafeteria at work again. I am feeling fine just that my stomach is very sore it feels as if it had been ripped open. Well I will keep you guys posted. Thanks.
Rosa In NJ
Surgery 2-7-02
5 ft 5in BMI 46 (288/165 ) Lost 122lbs
Surgeron: Dr. John H. Holup/Pascack Valley
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(No subject)

2006-09-01 13:18:23

YOUR OK JENNIFER. BE HONEST... MOE

Lisa Rideout/CORP/HPHC is out of the office.

2006-09-01 08:01:21

I will be out of the office starting 11/07/2002 and will not return until
11/11/2002.
I will respond to your message when I return.